F I Impregnated Dr Jeckle Pg1291264057
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So I meet this really nice gal on the internet. She is well put together with a fancy job and has her eggs in a row. I am a self employed guy, very spontaneous, but deep down have good character and am reliable. I was surprised that we started to hit it off, because we seemed like polar opposites- but you know how it goes.
5 weeks after meeting her, a switch flipped. She turns into selfish ice-princess. I am pretty sure she had typed up her profile on opposite day. Even her friends give her h__l over it. I decided that I didn't care to ever see her again. 2 days later she calls with the news. Looks like I knocked her up on week 4- then she apologizes for the cold blood that she was showing and blames the pregnancy. So, I give her a pass on the mood swings. So I have been as supportive as I guy can be. Not pushing her in either direction, she tells me that she is leaning toward terminating because she doesn't think she could afford it. I told her I would be supportive of any decision, although I told her that finances would not be the reason I would hold onto. Its been 5 weeks of knowing her- the real reason seems far more obvious. So, evidently, she changed her mind and it is game on barring birth defects, as she is 38 and really wants kids. So I tell her that I am on-board.
Then the ice princess comes back, every time I see her, she is snotty toward me. She tells me that she feels like I have no opinions and essentially describes me as a tool now. Hell, I can kind of see it with regard to how I treat her- kissing her ample ass when I see it. But how is a guy supposed to just know how to treat a gal in her position? Ignoring her for a week didn't fix matters either, maybe made it worse. Truth is, I really don't want to see her at all unless I know that she will be pleasant- and I know better than that.
Now she is hinting that she wants to be a murphy brown type. Even though I told her that I want to be as involved as possible in the pregnancy through raising our child. As a product of a single parent family, I am very much opposed to this idea. I am a bit of a road block to her plans. And get this: she is back on that silly dating site trolling for new suitors while carrying my child. It all makes me want to throw up. What kind of self respecting guy would date some gal knocked up with another man's child? and what the h__l is wrong in her head? Maybe she hasn't found one yet- maybe she has.
Although I really enjoy her company when she is in a good mood, I would be perfectly happy to watch her sail into the sunset- if it wasn't for the fact that she is carrying my child.
Writing this has been kind of therapeutic, but I am looking for advice from anyone who has experience overcoming this kind of situation. I am willing to do what it takes to make this work out well, but it seems that giving her attention does not work- as it turned me into a tool, but ignoring has not worked either. WTH do I do?? I just want a pleasant experience and she just goes out of her way to make it miserable. I get so damn angry with her- although I have not let her onto that fact. She is trying so hard to p___s me off- and she gets p___sed when I maintain a positive att_tude toward the whole thing.
Just can't wait to meet the next tool that would be interested in her now. And, I have to dim the lights when looking in the mirror. Will the passage of time snap her out of this? She is wrapping up the first trimester, when will it change? Is there any hope for a happy ending? For a highly educated girl, she seems so damn insane!
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Read your post over 10 times then you might realize how much of an arsehole you are being. Give the woman a break there is nothing more depressing than an unplanned pregnancy hey I just went through a planned pregnancy and even that was extremely depressing she can't control her body or emotions do you know how draining that Is and not to mention the confusion she is going through she is the mother of your unborn child and look at how you are talking about her your acting like a total tool talking about her like she is crazy is not supporting her you are emotionally abusing her which is an extreme form of domestic violence!!! Have some respect for your baby by treating the mother well even if she is a b___h cause your baby is going through everything she is going through the baby feels how she feels when she is around you which can make the baby unsettled with you when it is born she should be acting like an insane cow as you it is only 9 months of her life where she has no control over her life. I don't mean to be a b___h but you won't learn if someone doesn't tell you straight. Men need to know what they are getting themselves into before they have s_x with someone! What ever decision she makes she has to live with forever you don't have to cause it's not your decision to make. You can suggest but she gets the final say that is so had to do.
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Well scaredandlonely, in 2010, there is no such thing as an unplanned pregnancy for a woman.
A woman has 100% control over whether she wants to be pregnant or not. If she does not want to become pregnant, she will not. It is that simple. If she wants to be pregnant- especially if she is willing to accept any random man's deposit to accomplish this goal, the right thing for her to do would to give the guy fair warning that she is on this mission. Of course, that would only make her goal that much harder to achieve.
Frequently girls and women between 16 and 25 fail at relationships and feel a need to produce somebody that will give them unconditional love, so bang, they want a baby- from anyone. Oh, and if a man comes with that package to pay her bills, that would be great too. I did not expect a woman appoaching middle age to still have that mindset, although she does not need or want me to pay her bills. She simply wanted a baby and could not find a willing volunteer. This fact is no surprise as she has failed at maintaining any relationships past a year, probably because her blood runs colder that a lizard on a snow drift. No doubt, she can turn on the charm in short bursts when she wants something, like a guy to pick her up some food, kiss her on the cheek, or leave her a deposit. With this sick mindset, the proper thing to do would have been to visit a sperm bank.
Was I a tool? Sure I was. I own my error. Also, I made an enormous error in judging her character. I should have been much more careful. Bottom line is that the whole picture makes a lot more sense now. She deserves a pat on the back for accomplishing her life goal of producing somebody that might lover her unconditionally for awhile, anyway.
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