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I am ten and a half weeks, and yesterday my fiance told me that he feels trapped. We lost a baby in October, and after that, I went back on the pill, because I didnt feel stable enough to be pregnant again. My fiance was upset with me and after a LOT of talking and thought we decided that it was time to start trying again. He was ecstatic when he found out that we were once again pregnant, but somewhere, that all changed. During my first pregnancy, he was absolutley wonderful...always helping and so caring. When I miscarried, he was a mess. But, with this pregnancy, he seemed distant after a week or so. He no longer offered help, or even asked how I was feeling. He now says that he feels trapped, and that he was tricked. He asked me to go off the pill in the first place. So, now here I am, 21 years old and pregnant, with a fiance that will not return my calls. I have never felt so lost and alone before in my life. I have a very supportive family, but somehow that doesnt seem to be enough. I miss him like crazy. I just feel so helpless. What do I do? I still love him more than anything.
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Your fiance is probably scared, either that you will miscarry again, or that a baby will come between you (which it obviously has). If he's not returning your calls, try talking to his parents or write him a nice letter. Remind him that he did agree to this second pregnancy, and say that you still love and support him and hope that he will decide to remain part of your life. Don't say anything negative or he'll be put off. Best of luck!
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