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No don't do that. I would just come right out and say you want to have a baby. Why sneak and do it. If you lie about it...you might have a hard time actually trying to get pregnant then you'd be screwed if he found out the truth.

Hey what part of NC are you from? I'm also in NC. Since you already told him you were for sure, if he thinks you've been to a doc, I'd go ahead and get pregnant on purpose (as long as both of you want a baby). If he doesn't think you've been to the doc, then I think you should tell him it was a false alarm. That the test came out wrong. If you've been telling him about the 'symptoms' you've been having, don't worry about him thinking you were lying. If a woman truly believes she is pregnant, the body can perform phantom symptoms. This happened to me several years ago when I thought I was pregnant. I believed I was so I started having phantom symptoms. Just a piece of advice after having 2 dead beat dads: if you guys are gonna be having kids, please get married first. The reason I say this is because with marriage the chances of you guys staying together are better, and the effects on a missing parent or a broken home can be bad for a child. Hope I didn't offend anyone, that's just my personal opinion.

I will try not to be judgmental, however, a lie, is a lie, is a lie, and not for nothing, and with all due respect, why would you lie to a man you say you are in love with??? If you are pregnant, congratulations. If not, then tell him the truth, and try to make that baby. If at that point, things don't work out the way you had hoped, then maybe, it/your relationship wasn't meant to be. Either way, good luck, and try honesty, it will not only make you feel like a better person, but will make you a better parent.

I would talk to him about wanting a baby....if he wants one too..then why sneak around for it...what was his reaction when you told him you were pregnatn.are you married?

just tell him it was a false alarm!

oh... its not that easy to "just get pregnant over the next couple of weeks" women try for months and years before they are successful. ive told my boyfriend every month for the last 7 months that i was pregnant. he knows by now not to listen to me!

Okay. Thank you for your advice, all! Seriously, I have been through so many ups-and-downs emotionally these last few weeks by not knowing for sure, but I did tell him the whole truth and that if I'm not pregnant now (for sure) I do want to have a child with him soon and he was so happy. I could see it in his face and his eyes, like he was relieved that was how I felt! Thank you for your advice, really. I felt guilty about the prospect of lying about such an important topic, because I do love him so dearly, so I think that's why I asked~ so someone would tell me not to! I know that sounds crazy...but I am hormonal either way! :D

i would worry that we would find out in the future that one or both of us couldnt have children, and here this big, i was pregnant, lie is looming in the background. dont do it, its bad karma.