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My boyfriend (who has been separated for over 1 1/2 years) has just gotten his final divorce. I am 16 weeks pregnant - now he says that he needs his own space. He says that he loves me and will be there for both me and the baby but our plans for moving in together are on hold. He says that everything is moving too quickly. I really love him and have no idea what to do. Any advice?
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Give him his space. He will eventually realize that he messed up. It sounds like you were good enough to have on the side, but now you're not good enough at all. NOT TRYING TO BE CRUEL.Or it could be that he does just need time. See, women sometimes believe that men can't have the same kind of feelings we have. I went through a relationship similar to that. I gave him his space; during the eight months he called me three and four times a day, our relationship improved and we've been together now for almost three years and expecting a child. We moved in together a year and a half ago. It will all work out in the end. Concentrate on your health and having a healthy baby. God Bless you and Good Luck.
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you know the saying hon. absense make the heart grow founder.. Its hard after a divorce to settle right back down again , they say for every 7 yrs married it takes 2 years to get over it.. give him time.. hopefully he will be there for you, you pine over him , it wil puch him away.. good luck.. i am a single mom to be, so be stroong for that baby..your a week ahead of me..:)
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Do what YOU need to do and don't worry about him. If it's meant to be it will happen. Take care of yourself and your unborn child 1st.
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