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Heres my story. Im having my baby on Thursday (the 24th) Im going in to be induced. And my mom and step-dad are adopting her, we already have all the paperwork done and everything. I honestly dont care at all for the babys father, It wasnt a planned pregnancy and we were both 17 and werent even together when I found out I was pregnant, and I just couldnt kill my baby. Well, the father has been denying the baby ever since the day I said I was pregnant, there have maybe been two or three times he told me he knows its his, but everyone else and every other time he denies it. He hasnt been involved at ALL.. hasnt called once to see how I was doing, hasnt bought anything. So I signed over my rights to my parents, and told the county I dont know who the father is. Now he is telling me is he taking me to court and is going to get custody of the baby. In my heart I know even if he goes through with it he's not gonna get his way, but Im still scared! I'm not even 100% sure its his, I'm like 98% sure... Anyways I know it may be wrong to deny him his child but If you were in my shoes you would completely understand. All the embarrasment and humiliation he caused me telling all our mutual friends im lying about it being his baby.. its not like he has money or anything! He is NOT the person I'd pin this on if I was gonna lie believe me ... sorry just had to vent
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regardless of how he humiliated you to your friends, there comes a time when people have to grow up. You have to remember your issues with this guy are not the fault of the baby, so for you to deny the father a relationship with his child, one that the child should have, is a selfish act. Im not in your shoes, but i have issues with my daughters dad,, but i still wouldnt deny him his right to be in her life, she needs him regarless if i could care less for him.
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Hang on a second there Tyler0323, she has just explained that this guy has been denying that he is even the father of this baby and now that he has found out her parents are adopting it he all of a sudden wants to admit it. YOu should go ahead wih your original plan and stick to your guns, you know that the baby will be well cared for by your parents the you have made the right decision...
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You have to be kidding me. So because some immature kid, flapped his lip to his friends, like most do, he doesnt get a relationship with his child. And how is all of that, the fault of this baby? Its not, if he wants to be there then he should be given the chance.
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I think what this girl is doing is being sooo much more responsible then most the girls her age out there. She prob. could have easily went to get an abortion but instead she is doing the responsible thing in allowing two mature adults raise her baby. As far as this guy ( who she stated might not even be the father), yea he has rights but the baby's best interest should always come first and it looks like thats that she is trying to do.... i respect this girl alot. good luck iimsiiflyx with everything... and your lucky to have such a loving family willing to help!
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i never said anything about her signing her rights over to her parents. My deal is denying the father and child a relationship, immature or not, he still has his rights, untill he signs them over
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