 | pb - September 27 |
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This is going to sound really bad but I had s_x with a guy on a friday night. We did not use protection and he definatly ejaculated inside of me. I then slept with a different guy on Sunday night and we used a condom. The condom ripped at the sides and He pulled it out right away. He swears up and down he did not ejaculate inside of me. I rushed right out and took the morning after pill immediatly afterwards. I am now 4 months pregnant from one of these experiances and I am going insane trying to figure out whos it is and who i am going to be able to tell is going to be a father.
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u might just have to get a DNA test done, or place the baby for adoption, good luck
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 | j - September 27 |
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Ummm. she doesn't need to place her baby up for adoption just b/c of that. You just need to get a DNA test when the baby is born. Unless you want to place the baby for adoption that shouldn't be option just b/c you don't know who the dad is. You can still be a good mom even if the kid does not have a dad around
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 | h - September 27 |
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there is no way you can know which man to tell about your pregnancy, until you get a DNA test. even then you don't know how they will react. You should also think about whether you want to go through this pregnancy alone. You should consider whether either man will be there for you if the child belongs to him. They may not be ready for a child or simply don't want one. I'm going through a pregnancy alone and it's a very difficult situation to be in. You have to love and want your child before you know anything about them, and you must make the father irrelivent. The fact remains, the man can leave anytime they want (right or wrong). You have to be willing to go to hell and back (and you will) for your child nomatter who the father is. I know the father of my child and I wish I didn't. sometimes I wish I slept with two men so I wouldn't be so attached to him. but your situation is different in that you don't seem to be attached to either man. Consider that to be an advantage, now there is nothing to be attatched to or get emotional about accept the baby. If you choose to have this baby, it will be your only focus and your main priority. you won't have any "baby father drama" but you may feel alone sometimes. I would follow my heart but pay close attention to my head. use your common sense and prepare yourself for some difficult times, followed by the happiest time in your life. It will be much easier if you have support from friends, family or both. But even if you don't (I don't) you can do anything you put your mind and heart into. let me know if you need someone to talk too. I know it's hard but your stronger than you think.
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| pb - September 27 |
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I would like to thank you all for your quick responses...I know that I will need to get a DNA test, i was just hoping i could solve this before it got to that point. But I guess that is not going to be able to happen. Im definatly not putting the baby up for adoption, im already attached to it. Thank you very much H for your support and it would be awesome to have you to talk to. Id really like to hear your story as well as your feelings on everything and its nice to know that someone is there to listen. Let me know if you have MSN messenger maybe we can chat that way. thanks again for all the quick responses, more opinions would be awesome!! also the fact that noone has judged me is awesome, Thank you very much
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