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I recently discovered/realized that I am 4 months pregnant. I was on the pill at the time of conception but had recently switched pills and hadn't had a full cycle at the time. I moved out of state to help my grandmother and stopped taking the pill because I lost my insurance when I left my job. When I moved back into state I continued dating the babies father but then due to work he had to move to the next state over. We still talk but don't have any sort of real relationship at the moment. I never thought of being pregnant when I missed my period because I've always had a very abnormal cycle and have been suffering from Depression for multiple reasons. Now I have to tell him and I don't know exactly what to say. My parents know and are very supportive. He already has a child from a previous relationship so I know he's a good father. I just fear that he's going to resent me for not knowing until now and that he's going to be angry with me. I don't know if I want to have a relationship with him but I do want to keep his friendship and have him be a part of the babies life.
Any advice on how to inform the father?
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You need to tell him as soon as possible. I was in your same position and I was planning on waiting until after my first ultra sound but as fate may happen I told him last night. It was horrible he was sending me text messages and wanting me to come over for a "visit" needless to say I wasn't feeling up to it but he kept insisiting and wanted to know why. After several back and forth messages he just flat out asked me if I was pregnant. I did not want to tell him like that but the thing is he was upset that I had waited to tell him and I've only known myslef for about a week and a half. I could just imagine how upset he would have been if I would have waited any longer. Just give him a call and tell him don't wait any longer.
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