I NEED HELP -pg118107918083
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Kay. So i've been with this guy since the beginning of May, I thought i may have been pregnant on May 11th, so i got Plan B, and he said he would never go in me again.. then he went in me a couple times after that.. i got plan b again.. but it was like 2 days later.. so 85% that it would work.. .. Soo . . we went to some bc place and they gave it to us.. Andd.. today...i talked to him.. and i said.. if i am pregnant.. what do you want to do? and he says.. keep it.. but before today, he totally wanted an abortion.. .and i was like.. you want to get me pregnant, don't you? and he's like.. if i tell you the truth what's going to happen with us, i was like.. nothing.. cause i wanna know the truth.. and he's says, oh well .. if your pregnant, you can't leave me.. like .. seriously. what is that.. ? and now im pregnant with this guys kid, and i don't know wht to do.. ? i can't raise a kid by myself, i will not have money for it )= ? OH AND - i do not want to get an abortion.. But i've been out of school for the past year (my grade 11 year - i'm 17) because of my mom - i got myself away from her - but now i have my own problem. i wanted to go to school this year - but i can't if i have a baby.. but i refuse to have an abortion, or to put the baby up for adoption. I've had to babysit three younger brothers of mine since i was like 10, i just don't have the money too have my own child.. is there places that can help me? anyone? And i live in Alberta, Canada.
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Im a little confused. So he said, "If your pregnant, you can't leave me?"...so that means he wants to be with you, right? Are you worried that he seems a little obsessive.....do you not want to be with him? You lost me a little bit. You need to make some decisions soon. If you want to go to school, raise the child...or do both. You are going to have to find some way to make things work. This whole situation wasn't very smart on your part. You started having s_x with a man you recently started dating, didn't use any protection(none that you have mentioned), and now you are pregnant "with this guy's kid." You need to start taking better care of yourself and your body! I don't live in Canada, so I don't know of any places there that can help you. Good luck and I hope you find help soon.
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