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Im 23 pregnant and my boyfriend doesnt want to have the baby he wants me to abort it but i cant do it. Now he wants to be supportive but i hate him right now he has said some really mean shit and is so selfish. AAAAAHHHHH I really dont know what to do I am not gonna be with a man that doesnt want my baby, we are a package deal. Dont get me wrong I love him we have been together for 2 years but i cant stand it anymore. What would you do?
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He is reaching out to you and at least he is trying. It could be worse, trust me. At least he is taking some sort of responsibility. Give him another chance.
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 | s - September 8 |
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girl give him another chance because men say that they are the strongest but that's a lie. He's just confused due to the responsibility that come with a child . And it could be worse than that at least he didnt say to you I go or the baby go so think about that.
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 | me - September 8 |
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its not fair for him to say that, he was there too. u need to abort the boyfriend and focas on the baby, and stay as stress free as can be.
good luck
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 | jt - September 8 |
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have u thought about adoption,
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There ya go again with the adoption trolls
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Is a boyfriend "hatter" like a "mad hatter"?
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Oh yeah, Im 23 so there is no way I would give this child up for adoption or abort it, Ive made my bed. To each is own but this is the route im gonna take
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I know how you feel. Really. I am halfway through the pregnancy and he is still being an a__s. No one told him he has to be a dad. I just told him i was going to be a mom. Id rather do it alone, then with some a__s pretending that he wants to do it somedays, and other days not at all. It sucks. I dont know how most ladies do it. I want to go back 5 months and get un pregnant! And while im at it, get sterilized too. My heart breaks for you. Try to be strong. Ill hope for you.
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hi boyfriend hatter i know exactly what your going though i'am 24 and 36 weeks pregnant when i told my booyfriend of 2 years ii was pregnant he said "get an abortion" hes 29 has a great job but does not want to stand up, i kept on going with my pregnancy (crying,upset,etc,) then he brought up the idea adoption! no is my answer last week i went out bought a crib carseat etc. annd if you could see his face!!! but i really think hes warming up to the idea sometimes i think men need more time then us women for reality to really soak in i wish you alot luck and i know its hard right now but it will work out one way or the other.
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