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Glad to see ur still alive & kickin erock, I check this particular part of the Q&A thing just to see what you have to say! haha... this one & the third trimester one :) anyways... hope everything is going well!! 8 more days buddy... & HOPEFULLY, ill have my baby & get that baby girl that im PRAYINNNN for. :)
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Well alive! yes kicking not so much I'm really tired now a days I'm still not getting the sleep i need. Well my ex is at 23 weeks pregnant. I really wish i knew all of what she was going through, I still have a hope that she comes around. However everyday that pa__ses I find myself pulling away from feeling like that, because it is hard to hold on to love when the person doesn't want to love you back. I'm hopeful none the less. I'm going to be filing for paternity soon so that's good. (i think) well it's 4:30 and it's going to be another short one good night ladies!!
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I am not single and pregnant but I do have something to say about this, you seem to be judging a group of women, who more than likely all have a different story to tell. What about people who leave their men for GOOD reasons? What if the father leaves and thats why they're single and pregnant? Quit judging, I know it has to suck that your girlfriend is trying to have your rights removed, but don't take it out on a group of people you do NOT know.
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*babyonboard16*- I am very intrigue by your response! I am very frustrated by peoples ignorance, you see, if you had read all the post from myself and other you would see that I am not judging. Even though it would appear that way (judging other whom I don't know ) I have already apologized MANY times for this misconception. Again i say please read all the post not just the first one. B/c more than likely you will get a much better understanding that way. Don't be so quick to judge me. I'm in the same boat as a lot of these women. The person i want in my life and the one with the baby has left me.
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~*EROOCK*~ I had my baby!! baby boy... 7'15... landen mattais... he's absolutely perfect!! Couldnt love him more!! but jsut wanted to let ya know, i gotta go have this lay down, im tiiiired...
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congrats, i'm really glad to hear everything went well....keep us update on how he grows. Much love eric
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Man, why can't my ex be more like you? Well I never would have left him like he left me thats for sure, all I want is someone to kiss my belly and come to all my drs visits and be there for me :( I weep for you too, I am sorry that it happened to you. Good luck
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*cristinc*-thanks i appreciate your comment. What is your story? I don't think I've read anything on here from you!? Later Eric
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E-rock,
My story is very similar to yours except that the genders are reversed. My "boyfriend" broke up with me a month ago, I am just starting my 22nd week, and I actually have to hear from other people-not him-that he wants nothing to do with me except for the baby, he feeds my head full of c___p. I want the family, and that "perfect" life that he said we were supposed to have. He is a coward and a child, who can't even stand up for me. I am going to fight for full custody because unlike your ex, I will not use his past-or present situations (niether of which are good in any way) against him, but I am taking full custody, he can have visitation, but he is the one who decided to walk away and betray me. I think it will take a long time for me to get rid of this animosity, but I hope its understandable. I know that he can never love me like I deserve, and I never would wish my situation now to be any different because I am going to have a beautiful little girl in 4 months, but I really do wish I never met him at all, the only good thing to come out of this mess is our daughter, who never asked for any of this. I am going to give her the best life that I can, that is what she deserves!
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wow. my story isnt exactly the same as yours, but still, just the fact that guys do the stuff they do, idk, makes me crazy. My new born's daddy, dont except him... he says that me along with many others are claimin that he's the dad & he wants to see pics of the lil man but i wont give him any cuz i know he's only goin to use them, not to see what his son looks like,but to pick him apart & say that the poor thing does not look like him.. but the fact of it is, that HE IS THE DADDY! there is no question about it... I have no doubt but the fact that im snowball white... & he's african american... makes me a lil uneasy because my baby is still only new & not dark at all like him... but when u mix a white person with a black person, ya never know the skin pigmentation of the child & it normally takes a bit fer a baby to get it's skin pigments, or at least ive read online. but yeaaa... anyways it's rough cuz he only requests pics, dont take teh time out to ask how this child is even doing, & i just dont think it's right that guys get to do the stuff they do, & get away with it. but anyways im tryin to get over his issues & continue on with my life. I wish you the best of luck, cristinc! & ERIICCC... how ya been doing love???
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