I Ve Known Him For 2 Months
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I've been seeing this guy, we're not dating just messing around with eachother nothing serious at all, we both care for eachother but nothing would probably come from this...and now I think I might be pregnant. I'm really scared, I don't know what to tell him if I am or even tell him at all? Any opinion would be nice please
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Well, first find out for sure. If you are, I would tell him. He has a right to know and you have a right to support if you are and it is his. Whether or not he's going to be supportive is up to him, but before making any decision to abort please check out the flick thesilentscream.com. Watch it and make a wise decision about your situation. Either way, there are ways of getting through this...tap into community support groups and lean on friends and family as much as possible for support. In the meantime, I would repent for my actions and ask God for forgiveness. Lean on God for answers. There are many in the bible. Turn to him and he will not lead you astray nor will he leave you or forsake you. But first you must be born again in order to see the kingdom of God. Do the right thing for yourself and your child. Hell is the broad road which many follow. Choose the narrow road that leads to Christ and everlasting life. It will bring you peace and you can never go wrong by choosing it. You don't have to stand in front of God on Judgement day being accused of being an adultress or an idolator. Jesus paid for our sins, we just need to accept him and repent of what we've done. Admit you were wrong and accept Jesus into your heart and you will be saved. That is good news!! If your man chooses to accept his responsibility and respect your decision to follow God and do what's right, then God bless you both. Hopefully he will turn also and do the right thing by asking you to marry him. If he turns his back on you, there is a judgement day coming. Do not despair, for Jesus is our attorney in heaven and God is our great Avenger. All fall short of the Glory of God and are sentenced once to die, then the judgement. Do not be caught at the Great White Throne Judgement as many will and see yourself sentenced into an eternity of Hell where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth, but rather be caught up to the judgement seat of Christ where all will be rewarded according to our relationship with Christ and what we did in our life for Him. Go in peace child and know he is there for you. God bless you and keep you child.
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