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Is it wrong of me to not let the father of my baby in the delivery room? He just up and left us to go be with another woman and i really dont want him around me at all. I think if he here present at the delivery it would make things that much harder for me. I mean he's made things hard enough for me and my kids by walking out.
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You feel that way now but who knows how you will feel when its time to deliver the baby. I had the same feeling and told him and said "the reason was a lot of the times you don't answer the phone no reason in waisting my energy to dial the number if you won't answer" but all in all if he wants to be there i want him to. Maybe it will help your ex realize what he has left behind. 96, 02, and 07 - the years of your kids birth? If so that cute I use my daughter's birthday with a series of other numbers a lot myself. Hope everything works out.
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if you still feel this way at the delivery, than no its not wrong to no let him in. you are going to be in enough stress and pain, you dont need any added issues.
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amy77960207- i am going through the same thing. he left me for another women. i decided that he doesn't deserve to be in the room. Being in the room is NOT a RIGHT! He was never there for me when I needed him, and I have shed too many tears. He decided another women was more important than me & his son, so he made his choice, and he can live with it :) Hope my view from my situation helped you.
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I feel the same way. He hasn't been there for me at all and has been hanging out with some other girl and her son. I want him out of my life. He comes to the doctors appts but I dont want him there anymore. I dont want anything to do with him. All he does it make me cry,,, how do we deal with this?
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amy77960207, I don't think it's wrong. My boyfriend's mom used to be a midwife a__sistant and she told me that you need to try to be very comfortable with your surroundings during labor stages. It will just make labor harder for you if you don't feel comfortable. He'll be able to see the baby afterwards, so i don't see it being wrong. Just do whatever feels comfortable for you. Good luck!
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I was actully told by my doctor that unless my boyfriend attends the birhting cla__ses with me, he can not be in the room.
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UM I honestly believe its totaly up to you.....its not like the baby is going to remember!! SO worry about you obviously he ain't....So do what you feel is best for you!! :)
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