Learning To Be A Single Mom

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babygirl82 - May 4

I am 22 and my boyfriend and I were together and happy for the first 5 months of the pregnancy. I of course was really grumpy and moody but he was the best and tried everything he could. All of a sudden, at 6 months, he's decided we were never happy and should just end it now. He has blamed everything on me. He is 28, still in college, and now his mother is making him move to Tulsa, which is where I live as well as his parents, and start his new job for his mother in August. He has just stopped calling completely for the past 3 days and I don't know which way is up right now. He has taken away any excitement for this baby that I had and I can't pull myself up. What do I do? How do I make him realize what he is missing?

 

stef - May 4

Ouch... you got yourself a total Mama's boy. And sounds like she's a witch... Why is his mother still telling him what to do? He's 28 and about to be a father!!! You gotta confront this guy and tell him to live up to his obligations.

 

dimpiece69 - July 18

Babygirl let me tell you something. I am 21 years old and my babies father as well is 28 years old. He also sits up there and acts as if everything is my fault blames me for stuff I didn't start, picks arguements with me known that I am pregnant now. He totally treats me like garbage. We as well got along all the way up to my 7 month and he just started acting funny. My mother is literally tired of seeing me cry over this mess and she just wants me to be happy and to be able to bring this newborn baby into this world. You can't make him realize anything he has to do that and know that for himself babe girl. The only thing you can do is stay strong for you and your young and leave it in Gods hands. It'll be hard to do but that's the only way to get through the storm.

 

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