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I’m 23 and my life has become way to complicated within a matter of months. Im faced with a number of decisions that only I can decide. My x and I where living together a year. He’s 33 divorced with 2 kids and I was ok with it all. I hung out with his kids a lot ( I miss them). We really didn’t have any problems. We never had any big arguments or issues. It came as a huge shock to me out of the blue he said you don’t understand me or my kids and its over. Then he confessed that he was seeing someone else, someone his own age w/ a kid too. She was a woman from his work and I didn’t suspect anything was between them. They where having play dates for there kids for about a month. I guess it wasn’t just the kids that where playing. I found out that I was pregnant the day after he dumped me for this other woman. We planed this baby...he would tell me how much he wanted to start a family with me and plan a future. That’s the part that hurts the most... like why would you lie to someone and even try to have one if you don’t really want to be with them? It was his idea too. I’ve had a lot of big plans for my life and this wasn’t the way I wanted to have a child. I’m 11 weeks and I moved back home to NY(I was living in Seattle) I have no job, no car , no insurance, I dropped out of school, and my mom is kicking me out in a week. I have no support from my family what so ever they think Im stupid and well I think Im stupid too. I’m rely struggling with what to do. My family says just get an abortion, but we all know that is ezer said than done and I know I cant support this child. To make matters more stressful my x whose living with this woman keeps telling me to come back He will make things better between us. I just don’t know what to do and looking to anyone for advice.
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