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So I was dating an 18 year old guy when I was 15... Well... We were in a long term relationship and I thought I loved him more than life and he promised we would all be together. We had s_x, condom broke, I got pregnant. The night I found out I also discovered my boyfriend had cheated on me multiple times and lied to me about EVERYTHING. So I dumped him, because he was a little abusive anyways, and I didn't want my baby around that. Well he ended up getting together with one of the s___ts he cheated on me with... And a month after we all found out I was pregnant he started having s_x with her. I haven't had any kind of contact with him or any of his friends in months and I couldn't be happier. Is there anyone else out there who's in my situation? Happy the baby's dad ISN'T around?
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That is REALLY awesome that you made the right decision for you and your baby. With my daughter's father, it took me 3 years to realize that it's a good thing he isn't around. Now I've got to realize the same thing for baby's daddy # 2.
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Oh no... Well hunni, I hope you make the same decision soon. At least you know what's best for your babies!
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Thanks. We're not together or anything. We don't even speak. He is my ex boyfriend from 2 years ago. Disapeared for 2 years, popped up on day, and wouldn't take NO for an answer, if you know what I mean. You'd think that would be enough for me to get over it, not to mention the things he's put me through in the past/
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You know, I know we disagree and everything, but that is really hard to go through.Couldnt he get in trouble for being with a minor? I dont know, I just know that if I were you , I would try to stop someone else from going through what you are. Nobody deserves that. He sounds like a real jack a__s. I am trying to think of what that could be considered, OH statuatory rape? (sp?) well anyways I hope he dosent try to come in your or your childs life. You dont need that. :)
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I am not a single mother , but just wanted to tell you how courageous and strong of a young woman you are for regognizing that your ex-boyfriend is a loser and breaking contact with him! That has to be such a hard thing to do when you are carrying that person's child. Good for you!!
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It sounds to me that life will be better for the baby without the dad around. Stay strong, my mother had the same situation with my father. She then met my stepfather who legally adopted me and raised me as his own. Without him, I would not be the stable person I am today. Keep hope and know that there are terrific men out there who can be a positive role model in your child's life. All will be ok, I promise.
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You have to understand that he is immature and you'll probable go through this cheating game throughout your 20's. Don't look for him to change. He's just using you like the women he's using.
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