NY Vs KA

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LittleOne2006 - October 21

Im 9months pregnant, married getting a divorce, and 19years old. The babys father is not my husband, but thats not the reason Im getting a divorce. (Pos husband moved out of our apartment, and in with girlfriend. Honestly best thing that could have happened) The babys father, who doesnt live in the same state as me, doesnt want anything to do with the baby. I was going to move with him, but my doctor didnt want me to fly at the time. I had my bags packed and really wanted to go but he swears up and down that I didnt. I loved him, and still do, and I want him to be apart of the babys life. What can I do to change his mind? Hes 23 years old, in the military, and should be more mature than this but isnt. Ive gone through this whole pregnancy pretty much alone. I dont have a very good support system, and I want him back. I need advice or atleast, words of encouragement.

 

mybabylove - October 23

You were going to move there even after he stated he didn’t want anything to do with the baby? Do you have money saved up just in case you move there and things don’t work out as planned? When guys get you in their “territory” and see that you mainly depend on them it’s funny how they change and try and control you. From what you have said he isn’t sounding like a stand up guy either. It doesn’t matter though – I’m in the military and know for a fact they favor mothers when it comes to child support. Look into it. Have the baby and you guys should talk more about your future and what it is ya’ll want. If you don’t feel comfortable with it then don’t put yourself through something that isn’t necessary. He maybe trying to manipulate you with the whole you don’t love me act, I don’t know. Good Luck!!!

 

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