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SS - December 6

I know that none of you can truly tell me what exaclty i should do, but I was wondering if some of you can offer some advice. In august i was 5 mo pregnant and living with my fiancee in his parents home until we were to get our own place. Little did i know his mother had it out for me and eventually she kicked me out but my fiancee stayed. And very soon after broke up with me. I was devastated and hurt and didnt know what to do. And then i moved in with my sister and realized that i had nothing to be afraid of because i have such a great support group in her and my friends from all around me. So eventually i pushed the feelings for my ex fiance in the back of my head telling myself if it was meant to be than he will come around. So, i got a job and insurance and all that jazz and have been taking great care of myself since then. My baby is healthy and is due in january and i am really happy. Im saving money and doing really well for myself. Well, yesterday i recieved an email from my ex fiance with him telling me that i was right about his parents and how he feels that he should've stood up for me and everything. He regrets everything thats happened and now he wants to pick up where we left off. Now, Im not stupid, and in order for me to take him back he needs to straighten up and move out of his parents home for one, and then be able to take care of himself before he can try to take care of me and my son. But, if he were to get his life together and i was at a better more stable part in my life, what should i do? Should i give him a chance? I still love him and miss him, but when i got his email, i wasnt jumping for joy like i thought i would have a couple months ago. Ya know?

 

to SS - December 7

I don't think you need advice . Your wiseness shows in what you wrote . Am I allowed to say that I think you are on track ? Just don't fall off of it with too hasety of a decision but it really doesn't sound like you're going to do that either . Everything seems okay to me .

 

single mom - December 7

I must say ss u sound very wise just dont put to much into him so u don't fall off track good luck with your little man. it sounds like u are focused dont let no one take that away.

 

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