Not Sure Of Father Thoughts
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Hi,
I'm not sure who the father of my baby is. I love this forum cos its not judgemental and I feel so ashamed of what I did. I broke up with my partner we were seperated for a month.
I got my last period November the 4th. On November 14th I had s_x with someone else and it was unprotected but only for about 2 minutes and then we stopped. He didn't ejaculate inside me. The same thing happened on Nov the 23rd with this man.
My partner and me had unprotected s_x on November 17th and 18th where he did ejaculate both times.
At my 6 week ultrasound the date was 5w6 days indicated I concieved on the 18th. I've read these aren't 100% accurate though.
I'm not sure I can do this if its not my partners baby. Both guys look the same but if I tell my partner it might not be his baby he will hate me..and he already is wanting me to have an abortion. I'm so scared and confused.
Based on the information above how likely do u think it is that its my partners baby?
I have been told that where i live dna tests are only possible after birth.
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so why, if you were back together with your man, did you have s_x with another guy? or were you guys not officially back together? anyway, just find out how they do the dna test. like if they have to have a cheek swab or can it be hair from a hair brush or something like that. at least look into it, but if he doesn't want the baby, who really cares if it's his? he kinda sounds like a rear end to me. what is it you are wanting to do? are you wanting to keep the baby? i say don't even worry about all that drama. stay healthy for your baby. worry later.
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We didn't get back together till december...not that it matters?
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no no, it doesn't. it just confused me when you said you had s_x with your man and had s_x with another guy afterwards.
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You owe it to your child first of all to know who the father is and since your dates are SO CLOSE you can only know by taking a DNA test. You made a mistake...now you have a chance to make things RIGHT. Good luck!! You can take a DNA test whilst pregnant.
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