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I'm 21 and I am about a month pregnant with my ex-boyfriend's baby. The day I found out, the night before I had a fling with a guy that lives far away while I was away on business. This man is unlike anyone I've ever met before and is so amazing. I've never felt this way about anyone before. All I'm thinking about is how I can get up there to be with him. My ex called me some horrible things when I told him about this guy I had a fling with. He says now that he didn't know that I was pregnant, and was only reacting as a 20-something guy that was never going to talk to me again. He says that now that he knows that I'm carrying his child that he sees me in a new light and is willing to look past what happened while I was away to make it work. He said he wants to be there for me and the baby thoughout the pregnancy and will do anything in his power to take care of me and the baby. He's offered to marry me, and if I didn't want that, at least live with him and start a family. He's quit smoking, drinking, he's moving up closer to me so that he can be near me and the baby. He's trying everyday to work things out with me, and I don't know what to do. Both of our families are here, but I don't care about that, I just want to be with the guy that I met while I was away. The guy I met while I was away said that if he was here he'd help me out, too. My ex is saying that I'm being selfish and I'm taking the baby from it's rightful father and both families and has offered to take the baby should I want to go to Boston to be with the other man. He said he won't ask me for a dime, nor keep the kid from my parents. I don't know what to do. Please help, what would you do?