Pregnant Single And Alone

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neesha - December 27

I'm 15 weeks pregnant and the father told me that we would go through it together 2 days later he left me because he needs to focus on his work and have no stress. I've a working young woman and dont know what to do if he wants nothing to do with me i have to go through this alone. i work 10 hours a day and have way to much stress and its making things hard to do my job what do i do??? should i give up or be strong??

 

Joanne - December 27

I was in your same situation...still am. I'm 32 weeks pregnant and the father left me when I was 13 weeks along. Things have a way of working themselves out, These next 6 months will be very hard for you, especially if you are doing this alone. A baby is soooo worth it though. I'm working 2 jobs, and these last 7 months have been the hardest of my life, but in the end, I know that I won't regret any of it. Start your planning now, start saving money and arranging for daycar (if you need it). Don't let the father stress you out, chances are that he will come around, and if he doesn't, then he's an a__s. Mine never came around, I'm just so thankful for my friends and family right now. If you really don't think that you can do this on your own, adoption isn't a horrible thing. Many families would love to have your baby and would be willing to pay for all of your medical and housing while you are pregnant.. But, that's not for everyone... I couldn't do it. I really thought about it. Anyways, good luck with whatever you decide:)

 

Jennifer - December 28

Welcome to our world Hon!!! you are stro ng/ you are a woman. and soon to be a momma be amased how strong we are//

 

t_ti - December 29

i know it's hard neesha, but keep in mind that you have a beautiful human life growing inside you. this baby will bring you a joy deeper than anything you've ever felt. i hope you can work through your issues with the daddy, but please remember that regardless of what happens, you are not alone. keep strong and healthy mama! and put the rest in God's hands..

 

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