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Wow, I can't even begin to understand what you are going through. I'm almost 12 weeks pregnant, and I'm single, but I am still trying to work things out with the father. He's supportive of me having the baby, but ... we just don't seem to get along and have been doing a lot of fighting. He also lives 3 hrs away. It's all really stressing me out. I also feel really lonely. I don't know how to help you in your situation. Just know that you will be just fine, just make sure to take care of yourself and your happiness because the baby will get everything it needs. Much love sent your way.

Thank you for responding to my post. i appreciate the feed back. Yea i wish things were differnt with me and the father of my child. I wish we were on talking terms but see the funny thing is that he was able to just get up and leave. Its not like i didnt tell him i was pregnant. When i told him he left my house and said he would call me later and never called. So i felt really sad and for the first couple of weeks i was in a deep depression constantly crying not knowing what i was going to do. I know i probably will be fine, but i dont want to be just fine. I wanted a family and a husband who would love me and my child but it feels like now its going to be that much harder to find someone to love me. And i am sorry to hear about your situation. Honestly if you feel like all you do is fight then why try to be together. That type of enviorment will only cause more pain to you and your child. Oh and yeah the babys daddy he lives about an hour and a half from me. Its nice to know how easy it is for a man to sleep with someone and not take responsibility of their actions. Im trying so hard to accept the fact that I am going to be having a son. A child who will love me back unconditionally. But its still very hard to accept. I do hope the best for you and if you do happen to make things work good for you! I will keep you in my prayers. I hope the best for you. How are you doing? Being 12 weeks you are probably getting of the morning sickness? Well it is great to know that im not the only one who feels this way. Keep your head up and God will work through everything. He doesnt want to see us in pain. He never gives us anything we can not handle. We just have to be patient and everything will just come together.

Let me give more feedback on how I met the father of my child. I met this guy online and well i know big mistake...but i mean we have only been talking for a month September 09 and well everything was great until i found out i was pregnant. He did live an hour and a half away from me and well im really good about asking certain questions like are you married and do you have kids and for some reason with him i never asked or some how he found a way around to answering the question. So he would come down on the weekends and stay the night with me so i mean i found it odd how he found the time to get away and stay the night with me. His phone never rang off the hook and he never did anything suspious to make me feel like there was somebody else. i enjoyed his company and i thought things were going to be great. He would take me out i would drive out to his work site during the week and bring him dinner. He work the 5 pm to 5 am shift. He is a truk driver and he would come out to meet for lunch during the week. So it never crossed my mind that he was marriend with kids. Where does a man find the time to do this?? So I thought things were going great and i actually thought he was going to be happy that me and him were going to have a child together. He said me and him connect and he never felt this way with anybody else. I guess thats what got me that famous line men like to use. Silly of me that I actually believed him. So there is the story of how him and i became one with a child. But i did find one thing odd is that when he messaged me on my profile I knew that something was going to happen between us. Like if i seen him before or I knew him from somewhere. So I honestly think this was suppose to happen for a reason. To teach both him and I a lesson and to appreciate the life we have. I just find it hard that someone like myself who is independent and works really hard for my money that this would happen to me. I feel alone because i dont have the support i need from the father of my child. Going to these cla__ses alone make it even more depressing because i see everyone else with their significant other and it just really puts me down. i hope i snap out of this deppression soon.

Wow guys!! Married men... that really sux. I too am single.. and I really relate to how you never thought you would end up in this situation. I am educated, independant attractive and down to earth. Im 15 weeks pregnant to a man who doesnt want to be with me, I dont think he is married but now Im starting to wonder haha. Well all I can say is that maybe things will change for you... Ive heard that when baby is born you dont have time to think about men and all of your priorities change. I also think that these things happen for a reason and often our heart break is to make room for the wonderful things that are about to happen.. maybe a lovely man waiting around the corner who will love us and our baby. I dunno Im just hoping. Depression sucks when you are pregnant... Chin up guys.