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Well I am 8 months pregnant 4 more weeks til my due date and I am in a dilema ...
I ve been dating my child father for about a 1 yr and i got pregnant with 5 mos of knowing him .. It was unplanned and we really were not serious ( well on his end) I fell hopelessly in love with him immediatly ...
I recent moved out to my new place thinking that we were going to form a family but it has been a month now he still has ot moved it so it has made me very suspicious .. Iknow you all have heard of the expressio curiousity killed the cat .. well the cat is dead now ... tonight he was over and unfortunaly he left his emails open and as any curious women went for it he still writes to different females wanting to see them not to mention he wrote to one the day after our babyshower ... I just dot get it I've told him serveral times we dont have to be together just be part of our childs life and he alwasy responds to me that he knows that but that is about it .. I also noticed he wrote to a friend tellher that he does not love me etc...
My question to yall is what do i do should I confront him .... or what .. I love him very much but I will not let no one string me along thinking we have something when we dont and he is out meeting women
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Ximena84,
Sorry to hear you are going thru a difficult time at the moment. Firslty u need to sit him down and find ut exactly where he is at with the relationship. It isn't right that he is emailing other women and very disrespectful. Maybe he is going thru his own problems with the pregnancy and all. But it is something u both need to sit down and discuss. You do not need any stress especially so near to the birth and you deserve to know where things are at for the sake of your unborn. Sweetie I hope things work out for you and let us know how u are getting on!!!
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Ximena84. I know this is a hard time for you. No matter how much you love someone you can't make them love you. And it seems like you've done almost everything you need to do. You let him know the 2 of you didn't need to be together and well it doesn't sound like you got much of an answer. THe one thing I would really suggest is don't snoop. It just makes it worse. It's good that you know what he's been doing but I think you went about it the wrong way. Approach him and ask him bluntly what he's expecting and wanting. if it's not what you are able to live with then let him go. Don't leave it up to him...it doesn't seem like he'll be making that decision any time soon. Step up and take control for you and your little gift especially before you really think you're in love. Good luck sweetie. I hope it all works out for the best.
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do you think he may have left his email open so you would see it and maybe you would get so mad you would breakup with him that way he could blame you and not feel bad....that is something to think about sorry that you are going thru this right now but it is better you found out what kind of guy he is now and can go from there most men if they are out looking they are always gonna be that way the best thing you can do right now is start the child support paper work so even if he does not want to be with you and baby he will be helping support this child good luck!!
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