Pregnant And In A Long Distance Relationship

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Mary2007 - March 26

I am eight weeks pregnant and my fiance lives in another city. I feel lonely and afraid. This is our first child. I have my first doctors appt on Wednesday and the thought of facing it alone is overwhelming. I know I should be grateful that he moved away to make more money for our family. . .but I can't feel the "gratefulness" because my fear of being pregnant and alone is covering it up. I need advice. . . how can I stop these feelings of lonliness and abandonment or least cope with them?

 

Danii - March 26

*Mary2007* be thankful that you and your partner are still together and he is doing things to support you and your growing family. Chances are it hurts him to be away from you too. Do you have any close family or friends? I think it's important to have someone with you for doctors app etc, so you have someone to be excited with. Your never alone, you have a beautiful child growing inside of you. Focus your energy on that and pampering yourself instead of feeling abandoned. Just curious, do u not have the option of moving to be with your fiance?

 

Mary2007 - March 27

It was my brillant idea to go back to college to obtain a nursing degree. I will be done in December and I couldn't move with him. I have a brother who lives in this city, but he hates my fiance and would never dream of coming to the doctor's appt with me.

 

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