Pregnant And Single And Feel All Alone Advice Needed
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i found out i was pregnant in november i am now 19 weeks the father of the child has changed completely he doesnt call or text to check up on me and then when he would see me he would tell me why i dont talk to him im like are you serious i asked him is your hand broken.before this happened i was with my boyfriend of two years when this took place i stepped out on him with this guy but the possiblilty does exist that the child could be his too i told him now i think he has problems he broke up with me on friday because he saw that i blocked him number and i went out with my gf and didnt answer him when he called and when i did he got mad and said all kinda things and said he cant do this anymore he has been supportive and just because you found out i blocked your number and said i tried to lie about it too serious he called twice that same day and hasnt called back since before he said he wanted to stay with me and help me raise the child he would never leave blah blah and all he want is to me happy with me and he loves me deep down this is hurting so much cause now i feel totally alone im beating myself up but i know its going to hurt that little girl the most i want to think everything would be okay but i dont think so and now i think im going to give her up for adoption cause she deserves a better life than o can give her everyone days its going to work out funny thing is he was the only one that was really checking cause my mum has been treating me and making me feel so bad cause this happen and then i feel alone i cant do this alone can anyone please offer any advice
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Mel, your post makes it clear that your little girl would be better off adopted. That is the most difficult decision a woman can make, but sometimes it is a win-win-win solution. Google [adoption agency] and start a convo whith one that appeals to you. There is such a thing as "open adoption" where you have occasional contact with the child, but most adoptive parents are scared of this - they want a clean break. There are also couples hitting this site who would like to adopt. You have to decide if it is OK to by-pa__s the screening that an agency does. GL!
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If you are single and pregnant, you don't have to be! Check out my profile for Facebook page information on finding a man that will love and adore you during and after your pregnancy, or search 'Pregnant and Single' in Facebook. I have also established a Yahoo group called 'PREGNANTNSINGLENLA' to put single pregnant women together with men who possess a strong s_xual attraction for pregnant woman. So, if you're still pregnant and single, that is purely your choice as you don't have to be.
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