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Ksosa- I understand 100%... Everything happens for a reason.. IF it wasn't meant for me to have this beautiful daughter then I would of had a miscarriage but guess what I didn't I have a BEAUTIFUL 3 month old lil girl and a beautiful 5 year old and they are my life... Ya I have IM its jewlskye1024@aol.com... Write me sometime and we can chat... anyways...Everyone on here has made mistakes maybe some bigger then others but we are only human we are ent_tled to make mistakes... you CAN NOT help who you fall in love with.... Jim- this has nothing to do with a mans animal like nature it has to do with the man is obviously not happy at home if he's looking else where.. a man wouldn't look else where if he was so happy at home sorry... I was with someone for 7 years and almost got married and once I found this "married man" I left him I gave up EVERYTHING why because I love him and I know one day we will be together.... and for you to say that the women are more to blame well maybe if the men didn't approach us we wouldn't of a__sisted him as you say... Slowpoke- and how old are you to ask a guy 1 are you married and 2 do you have a job... maybe the job I can understand but if you don't see a ring on that finger and your out I'm sure asking him if he's married isn't the first conversation you are going to have come one now be honest...

jazy-it is a legitimate questin to ask. if i dont know the guy and he doesnt have a ring on then yes i would ask him if he was married. i am 29 years old and im not trying to have a relationship with someone who already has a wife and kids at home. and what does my age have to do with any of it? you are right everyone has made mistakes i never said they didnt, but you learn from your mistakes you dont keep making the same ones over and over. and a man can be happy at home and still cheat jazy. just because he cheats doesnt mean he isnt getting it at home. or somewhere else for that matter. you are right you cant help who you fall in love with, but if it is a married man you could at least wait until he is divorced.how long is he going to stay for the kids? the kids are not stupid they see things and they know when there is something not right with mommy and daddy.you are right you are the one who is going to have to live with this and all you can do is the best that you can, but you are saying that we make excuses for the men well what are you doing? you are making excuses for them too. that it has to be the wifes fault because she lets herself go well that isnt necessarrily the case. i know alot of men who have cheated on beautiful women that were skinny and pretty with someone who was big. so dont blame it on the wives for not making their men happy. we are the only ones who can make ourselves you say that you will do everything to make him happy, well one day your not gonna be able to make him happy and he will go to someone else because like my aunt always said once a cheat always a cheat. dont think that you were his first affair and that you will be his last . im not here to defend my husband because he isnt a cheater i am here defending the wives and the families that are being destroyed. if it were my husband who was cheating i wouldnt be here, i would leave him because i am a strong woman and i know that i deserve better than that.

Jazy..this slowpoke woman is so dumb. She thinks its funny when she doesnt even know what is going on. She keeps responding to me with such nonsense. I dont get it? whats her story? Did her man cheat? whats her anger about? her talk of homewreckers and booty calls is crazy!! If he wanted a booty call it would not result in him wanting to spend his life with me. Its almost like SLOWPOKE thinks she is watching some movie and can see and hear every single detail in our lives... MAN... i cant imagine having so much time to judge other people's lives. or to have that much time on my hands....that would be great! what losers!! what do you think is harder for children... growing up watching their parents live in a unhappy marriage, fighting all the time and being unhappy??? or the father leaving the house but still being there for the kids in everyway possible?? USE your head?? your living proof that a bootycall messed you up?? I doubt it was a bootycall... maybe your mom just didnt know how to be a mother. It reflects in the ignorance of you !!dont blame your mothers parenting skills on an affair blame it on how you treated you

you CARE enough to keep responding!!!!!! thats cracks me up... your pathetic life and your pathetic mother... whatever leave me alone & get over the fact your mom didnt want u bye

blah blah blah blah blah . you are so funny i cant help it your man is married get over it find someone single

my mother wanted me about like your man wants you lol

your still responding?? lol. my man wants me and in 20 yrs i wont be online complaining about him. please hunni leave me alone. find something better to do with your time.... like go to a shrink !

ur the 1 on here b___hing about your lives maybe you should go to a shrink..i havent complained about my life i like the way my life is. i cant help it that you women are so unhappy that you have to air all your dirty laundry out on the internet. not my problem. dont get mad cause women want to bash you you asked for it when you posted what you did. dont be mad at me for voicing my opinions. i cant help it that you dont like what i have to say.thats too bad. in 20 years he wont be around for you to complain about him on the internet..lol

the following are statements from SLOWPOKE...."i am proof that a BOOTYCALL breaks up families and the kids are the ones who pay. It was however my mother who screwed around on my dad not the other way around".....you have done. no my life isnt boring and i am free to write on any forum that i want to write on. i think it is disgusting when a HOMEWRECKER gets on here and tries to make herself feel better about her actions by trying to get sympathy for what has happened to her. you said if you wanted him away from his wife that you could have him away..i find that funny when he told you that he wanted you to get an abortion. he only wanted you for a piece of a__s and that is it".....actually jazy when i was dating i asked the guys 2 questions. the 1st one was are you married? the 2nd was do you have a job...............i had to grow up fast and never had a childhood because my mother cheated on my dad and they both left. she had 8 kids and none of us have the same dads. i dont even know which one of her flings is my father. you think that you dont wreck lives when you sleep with a married man then you are wrong, because i am proof that it does wreck lives. when my mom and dad both left to be with other people they left all of us kids, and for years i thought that it was my fault that i had done something wrong or that i wasnt good enough for them. my dad died and my mom i now do not speak to because of this. if it hadnt been for my aunt and uncle taking all of us kids then we would have went into the foster care system.<---------------------------------------------------------------------------AND she is saying she never complained about her life on this forum... read her statements two of them are her SOB stories... BLAH BLAH BLAH... the rest of that c___p is insults.... go to a therapist please.... get over the fact ur parents didnt want you!! Its not cause they cheated... they DID NOT WANT U GIRL!!

I had to respond to "Jim." While I don't like to pa__s judgement on people (although I would never knowingly sleep with a married man) and I agree that both parties are at fault, the MAN is the one who made the commitment to his wife. If I found out that my husband was cheating, he would be GONE. I also think that it's crazy to say that because a woman tempts a man, it is her fault that he cheated. I know plenty of men who I'm sure have been tempted..that doesn't mean that they're gonna cheat on their wives! AND attractiveness has nothing to do with it..love is deeper than a cute girl. Additionally, I think it's a cop out to say that woman have more control over their s_xual desires than men. Are we living in the 40's again?? When you decide to get married, BOTH parties have to decide not to cheat. Saying that the woman "a__sisted the man in giving into his desires so it is more her fault" is being extremely chauvenistic.

wow talk about someone with alot of time on their hands. you say that i am the one who needs therapy but you are the one who is copying and pasting what i wrote. and for the record that was my childhood, not my life. i dont live my life by what my parents did. i make the best out of the cards i was dealt. my parents leaving had nothing to do with me. see there is something that you dont know. my brother was killed by a drunk driver while we were waiting for the school bus. do you think that might have had something to do with them leaving? since you know everything maybe you can answer that question for me. my childhood in no way is my life because i only live in the present not the past because what good does it do. you are starting to get boring with the same c___p over and over again. i cant help it that you dont like what i had to say. i am glad that you can make fun of someone for something that happened to them as a child and that they had no control over. what you did you had control over. i cant live by my parents mistakes so if they did leave because they didnt want me that is fine. i still turned out to be a good person with morals with or without them. but you see you keep saying there are things that we dont know and we dont know the whole story well the same applies to you. so you know what this will be the last time that i post on this thread. you are the only one who can make you happy. i hope that your life turns out the way you have it planned. and i hope that you and your guy do get together. that would be great. you make your own destiny. it has been really fun chatting with you i am glad that you got a good laugh out of my past. maybe it will help someone out later on. i may have judged you and these other women on here but i have never judged your kids as that would not be right. so i am glad that you find it fitting to judge my childhood even though i have tried to leave your kids out of this because it isnt their fault. just like the reasons my parents left were not my fault and i am glad that you like judging my childhood. i hope that the same doesnt happen to you or you kids because it isnt right to blame the kids for what the parents did. so i am glad that you have such a great life and that everything is so wonderful thats great. i cant help my past but i can make my future better and thats what i have done.