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Well he said he called attorneys offices and they told him he want allowed to. I also went out and read it online because I didnt believe him. I read the actually written law where it says you cant in Florida. His girlfriend (aka: THE IDIOT) was even willing to pay for it for him. In Florida I guess they just dont want children walkin around with no Dads just because they dont want to pay child support (and that is my case) because he even calls and asks me if he can get her but I have begun in the last month not letting her go because she came home and told me that he slept all day, her words were "Mommy why does Daddy want me to come over if he just sleeps all day until the time to bring me home) His girlfriend (whom I have always gotten along with) was mad at him for not getting up and brought her home at 6 and told me the same thing and at that point I told her to let him know he had to come to my house and have supervised visits since I could not trust him to nurture her and take care of her. She had to feed herself all day and I gave her a juice box and she was like "wow, this is my number 5 one of these today" and i asked why and she said because her Dad slept all day and she was alone with "amys kids" and they made their own food. I was livid!!!! I asked where "amy" was and she said she had to work all day. So he slept in the bed all day while my 6 yr old and her 5 and 7 year old fended for themselves all day!!! So that was it for me.....He wants her, he even told his girlfriend that he knows I would let him see her even if he signed his rights over because my daughter would miss him, BOOOY he just doesnt know! my daughter doesnt miss him, she only asks when can she see amys kids!! anyways, i am getting waaay off the point.... I wish I could, maybe next week when i get some time I will try and call around because I am through with his no good a55 and my daughter is sick of him too... (and i dont tell her anything!!!!, she tells me all the time how amy takes care of her) NOW IM MAD AGAIN THINKING ABOUT!!!!

I don't think your post was taken down becuase it was offensive, I think it was taken down because it contributed to the off topic deabte which the moderator probaly wanted to get rid of in order to keep things on track (rather than a big cat fight as seems to happen so often these days). As for why the other post remained up longer than yours, maybe no one reported her post until a few days later. I've seen comments come down that have been up for a year. I figure they're only taking it down now because some one finally poor tasted it.

While your trying to get the time to call around make sure your keeping a diary of his pick-ups and drop-offs and any phone call. Make sure you right down everything he says no matter if its about your daughter or not. An most important right down about Amy bringing her home and what went on. If they wont let you sign papers in FL you can use this diary in court to have his rights removed also. Its sad that theses things happen to poor little kids who just want to be loved. I feel bad everday that things went the way they did with my husband. But I cant let his problems in our childs life anymore. Though there DAD may not have rights after this, they will know we did this for them in the long run. Yes he doesnt want to pay support, but he also dont want to be contacted before there 18. So if anything happens to me before they can fend for themselfs I have a safty net that they wont go to him. They'll goto my family (there grandma) and if she is unable to by that time, My father-in-law and his wife are wonderful people and I know will care for my girls. An they will take them all no matter if there older sister isnt by there son. An jsut because he signs off doesnt mean they dont have a daddy out there. But with a stronge loving mom and a family to help. I child can grow and be happy and healthy, Sometimes better I think. I wish you all the luck in the world. I can do some research and try to help you find out if you can get thoses papers there. If you would like? Your baby girl would be better off with a great and good mommy than a dad that is just there...As for poeple on this forum, I may say my peace back to them when there so rude to me, but I just figure there probably bored and just need to find someone to pick on..I dont really get bothered by them I'm better than that. Though sometimes it can get on my nerves..lol..But hey we are all women I wouldnt expect us to talk all the time and not get mad at each other sometimes, you know..LOL..TC tjane and gl. Just let me know if I can help in anyway.

I have to say that in Pennsylvania they didn't make me supply any information. They kept pushing me to file for child support even though I had a PFA against her father. Well now I wish I hadn't filed. I don't even get the money. It goes back to welfare to pay them back for what they provide to me and my child. I would just say you don't know who the father is because it was a one night stand and you didn't get his last name. If you really don't want him in your life then don't let anyone push you into doing that. It only leads to more pain. I wish you the best. Sara