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Here's my situation. I am nineteen weeks pregnant and I just broke up with my boyfriend last night and I feel like c__p. I thought I would feel good about my decision but I don't at all. We've been dating for a couple years and about a year ago he decided that we should think about getting married. I was pumped because It's very rare in my experience that a guy will be the one to wan't that before the woman and I loved him very much. So he took me ring shopping and we picked out what I liked. It's been just over a year and still nothing. Basically he keeps making promises about dates we'll be engaged by and each time it comes and goes with nothing. Then he said by January for sure so I patiently waited. Then we found out I was expecting and you think that would make him excited about us being a family but not really. He was excited at first but now not so much. Everytime I try to talk with him and plan things out he changes the subject. He's been going out with the guys alot more too and the way he speaks to me has changed. He swears at me sometimes even though he knows it really hurts me and he never used to before. He doesn't seem like a man that really wants a future with me and the baby. I gave him until the end of this month to smarten up and propose and of course he din't so I broke up with him. I'm pretty sure he didn't think I would do it but I' tired of wasting my time on someone that will probably never want to marry me. One of our mutual friends thinks I made a big mistake. She thinks he's just freaked out about the baby but he really loves me so I should give him some time. What do you guys think? I'm so sad about this whole situation.