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Tammy - January 22

Im 18 and already have a 16 month old son. I hid my last pregnancy from my family and everyone around me, and noone found out until my sister saw me walking out of the gyno's office the day I was to be induced. Im pregnant again to a guy who I slept with on an overseas holiday. And even though I had the implant and used a condom (it broke), fate just wants to see me have another child. I live with my family and am struggling to make ends meet as it is. I dont know how to tell them. I know they'll be happy that they're getting another grandchild, but I also know they're going to be upset and disappointed in me for getting pregnant again. Any advice anyone?

 

g - January 22

Well im in my late 20's and my family blew a cork when they found out i was prego again. I had a miscarraige ,then 9 months later i got prego again-she's now 5 and now am prego again. My family blew because i'm not married nor have a "career". But things are better now. Your going to have to tell them especilly because of the stress on you and what is going to happen or what you think is going to happen. It's already done now just do yuor best to continue making it for you and family. It will be hard but i feel so much better since i came out of my "hiding" with them. I have also had complications and it helps that as mad and diapointed that they are they are here for my kids and me! Good luck. Oh and yes it sounds like fate wanted you to have another baby!

 

Lee - January 23

I think no matter how old you are you are still scared about disappointing or upsetting your parents. I'm 32 and I'm 12 weeks pregnant with my second child, my first one is 11 years old, and I haven't told my mom yet because she is going to be so upset and disappointed with me that I just can't handle it right now. We live 4 hours apart and in different states so I don't see her on a regular basis but we are still really close and talk on the phone ever other day or so. I feel so bad keeping this from her but I also have so much other c___p going on with the dead beat sperm donor and dealing with this all by my self. I just don't think I can handle the stress of her disappointment and questioning right now. My mom has such high expectations of me and I feel that I always let her down. I already struggle enough with being a single parent to one child and I know she's going to question how I can do this again but somehow I'll find a way. I don't know how to tell her either so I feel your pain on that one and I don't even think she wants another grandchild. Sorry I don’t have much advice but I wanted you to know your not alone and at any age it can be very difficult to tell the people you love.

 

Stupid - February 27

i thought that i had a miscarrage...now i think i'm pregnent i haven't gotten my period and i love my boyfriend but not as much as my boyfriend of 4 years

 

Dill - February 27

how do you tell if your pregnant if you've only missed your period for a month?

 

To dill - February 27

You take a pregnancy test. If you dont know what steps to take to figure out if your pregnant you should not be having s_x!!

 

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