Single And Pregnant-pg113684552318
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I'm 24 and 19 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend and i broke up about 2 months ago afterwards he got another girlfriend it seemed in a matter of seconds. I thought i finally came to terms with the fact that we would just raise this baby as friends but today i stopped by his house and got the see the girlfriend face to face. i felt like i got punched in the stomach. I know i'm supposed to be concentrating on the baby but it really hurt me to see him happy and he seems to just have forgotten all about me. how am i supposed to get over the man who's baby i'm about to have. I don't want him to be with anyone else or want to for that matter.
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Girl, join the club. At least you guys are friends or trying to be. My ex never calls or asks about the baby which he says he 'cares' about. He replaced me before we broke up. I know its hard but think of something positive everytime he crosses your mind. Oh, and don't ever go to his apt or go wherever he may be till you get over him. Cuz I swear seeing him with or without a girlfriend WILL hurt.
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Yo sweet miss.. try and think about something great like anything at all that makes you happy...think of it over and over whenever you get down on the situation.... I had a son with a total idiot.. in and out of jail.... screwing girls 10 years younger than me to p__s me off.... he even brought a girl home one night and tried to do her on my ocuch thinking i wouLDNT HEAR!!!! I wondered around single with my son for years before i found the perfect man for me... sweet kind caring supportive... theres someone out there meant for you... and its prob not the father of the child your carrying.... but its ok we all make mistakes..... hope you feel better remember mothers are STRONG!!
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What Mary and Joanne both say is true. You will get over it and you will find someone who loves you and cares for you. I am sorry you have to go through this especially through your pregnancy. The tears will keep coming, no doubt about that, for the next few weeks. Maybe you will cry when you finally have your baby and wish the father was there with you. I know because I have been there. Well...I still cry. Cuz it hurts. You are human baby girl he crushed your heart and deserted you. But I swear to you that you will feel better eventually. You will wake up one day and realize you can do this WITH or WITHOUT his help. Like Mary said we mothers are strong. We keep pulling courage and faith from God knows where. And yes we are ent_tled to mistakes. What matters most is you don't let him see you down EVER, or ever go back to him. Everyone on this board seems to have been there. Take it from those who already travelled that road.
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So sorry for all of you. Stefani It's hard and its been hell for me to. But i agree with the girls stay away from his place rite now. I try to avoid my exs apartment because i know all his women go there which like JessicaG said my ex replaced me before we broke up to. My ex only calls when he's drunk off his mind. So hang in there. I think we all feel about the same way here. I wish you all the best. :)
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Mommy Dear
no i have not and will not consider adoption. Just because the father isn't around doesn't mean that i am not fully within my means to provide a loving home. I am well within my financial means to do so. I know there are lots of loving families out there who would be great parents, i went to college to be a social worker, and i am one of those. I was just looking for a little support and advice on doing it without the father around.
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