Single And Pregnant Because I Want 2 Be
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I'm only 19, I kicked my babys father out about a week ago because I've tried but I do not have any feelings for him anymore. Im 13 weeks pregnant and he loves and he wants more than anything to be apart of our babys life. I feel bad because I can't have feelings for him like I'd want to especially for the babys sake. I hate the fact that we didn't work out and because its mostly my fault. I've always had feelings for my best friend and I felt bad thinking about him while I was with my babys father so I had to end it. Is there something wrong with me? or will it be ok?!
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You can't really change how you feel if you don't love someone it makes no sense to be with them in a loveless relationship you would just be making both your lives miserable.You have to make him be a part of his childs life though.
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You know....I was in this same sutuation. With my ex for 5 years and the day I found out I was pregnant I also found out he was cheating on me. Well I had finally had enough and packed my STUFF and left that day determined to not look back. He knew I was pregnant and wanted to be a part of it but I was so stubborn at first that I shut him out. After about 6 months pregnant I came to terms that my child (now 18 months old) needed to know his father REGARDLESS!! He stood by me every step of the way as a friend and was there to see his child born. I think that is the most important thing ever. YEAH...I know what you are thinking. YES HE IS STILL with that girl he cheated on me with but soon after I gave up on my stubborn and selfish behavior I realized she is great with my son. I grew up without my father and I would never want the same for my child. So just dig deep in your heart hun and think about what is best for that baby. You may feel like your heart is ripped out of your chest now...but you will be even more upset when your child hates you for not letting them know their father. Remember there are a lot better men out there than him. ANd you will find one sooner or later that will accept you and your son. I DID! :) I couldnt ever be happier. GOod luck babe and keep your head up. Once you hold that lil baby in your arms for the first time...al lof the hurt you are feeling will go away. I promise.
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