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I used to go out with my friends to the bars all the time and now that I am pregnant life has gotten a little dull lol. My friends still go to the bars, I'd go just to dance but it just feels weird to me. I would just feel out of place. We still all go out to lunch and such but I also find myself getting invited less to functions that would be serving alcohol. I never really drank that much to begin with. I had a get together a month ago and my friends were all drinking beer while I had milk lol they all made fun of me but I didn't really care. I just wish I wasn't the only preggo friend lol. Any one else feel this way?
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I do! it does seem as if you are all alone..I want to sleep and eat a lot and none of my friends want to do those two things all the time..lol plus I get tired so easily just walking around that I would end up complaining about my feet hurting or that I had to use the bathroom for the fifth time in an hour and I feel like I am and inconvenience to my friends. So to tell you the truth I'm rather lonely with my husband working I'm just kinda here with my cat. But if you think about it when the baby comes you will run out of time for them..with the new baby taking up all your time so it will be our turn to be unreachable.
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wow awesome friends that make fun of you for taking care of yourself. shows a person's true cla__s i'd say.
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Sorry you do not have the support you would like from your friends. I think that is mean, that they make fun of you because you can not drink. You think they would be more mature about it. They sound like a bunch of little immature party girls. Seems to me that maybe this pregnancy is what was needed to show you that these girls are superficial. Its not all about going out and drinking and partying. In times like these, your true friends will step up =)
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lol they are mostly work friends who are 21 - 30 years old. it doesn't bother me as much because I don't miss the bar scene, just miss hanging out thats all.
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I know what you're saying...your common interests have shifted. It's normal. You feel out of place and they feel like they can not relate to you anymore. This happened with me and my best friend. But not on my end...she was pregnant and had her fiance. She was wrapped up in preparing for the baby...and the relationship with her now husband. I felt left out and missed my friend who I used to be attached at the hip to. But that was a very long time ago and it definitely isnt like that now...she LOVES t get away from her family and have some girl time...lol.
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