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Isn't if funny that they think they can lead you on when ever they want? My baby's father does the same thing (I think it's only when he's bored). Then the next day he's MIA!!! It's like they expect you to say "I miss you too, please come back to me so we can be family" LOL. Even if I did fall for the BS he would be up to his same old tricks in less than a week. How stupid do they think we are? Anyway, I'm glad you stayed strong. Even if you were to try to work something out with him, I wouldn't judge you. Just be honest with yourself, especially if he won't be honest with you. I've been trying to be civil with my ex and every time we talk (once a week, maybe) he tries to act like we're a couple, calling me his baby and stuff, I just laugh it off, on the inside and out. I can't wait to have my baby, so I can move on in every way possible. I know it sounds rude, but I can't wait for him to come pick up the baby and finding another man answering my door. he deserves it, because he still doesn't expect me to move on, he thinks I'll wait for him forever. He has no idea how wrong he is. Stay strong, and keep it real with your self and he can never hurt you again.

Thanks dew i agree. See i have beEn online like now and he's online yet he wont write me! I haven't heard from him since he wrote that. I know thats for the better because the less i hear from him i can hopefully get over him. I dream of him nightly cheating on me and he's got an std or just we are doing something. I think i still care for him-although i dont see why. My ex doesn't say we are together but still uggh! I wish u the best and that you stay strong to. I wont judge you either if you hooked back up with him. But 8 years on and off and women after women lies after lies and how he's a father ...no i can't let my daughter -soon the baby -see thats how a relationship is. I want them to see its filled with honesty and real love-no threats or cheating. The bad part is that i am still physically attracted to him. Yeah i don't think my ex would care if i hooked up with someone but it would be nice to have another man there huh!!!!!!! Hey we can do this.We don't need them maybe one day we will find a decent man.Thanks!!!!

I worry about the message I'll send to my son too. I don't think his father is capable of showing him what a man is and how a real man is supposed to act (honestly, with integrity and honor, etc.). If nothing else keeps me away, I hope that will. I have the same haunting thoughts you have about cheating and I too still care for him. I'm just learning to care from a distance, and not to care about him more than I care for myself. Also, there is a part of me that hates him, and I try to focus on that especially when I'm missing him. Don't worry about the physical stuff, cause I think once we find a man that treats us the way we want and deserve to be treated, the attraction will be natural and deeper than physical, but also emotional and psychological. hope to talk to ya soon, until then good luck.

It really shouldn't be that hard but it is. I wander if the reason i don't sleep good is because of my ex. I am up every hour. But yeah even if we are not with the guys, the kids will see what type of person their father is. My kids father well, no morals what so ever. I don't want to spread stuff about him on the net but he is just nasty. I mean i am no angel either but my kids will see all the wrong things when he starts taking them. I'm scared for them ya know? But it's so sad all these women on here ( including us) are going through this. It's only been since the begining of this month since we broke up, maybe last day of Nov. Well he ditched me before that but my final words came later. So sorry to drag on my thoughts are just going wild rite now. My little girl is acting just like him rite now and whats funny is he's hardly been around! Well i hope you have a good day. Oh i have a question completly off subject. I know we are not supose to eat alot of sugar or have choco cuz it has caffine but can water help flush out the sugar out of your system? If so how quickly? I have an appt. on the 29 and i had a little to much cake last week. The nurse yelled at me last time. I am trying not to eat it but my gramps keeps buying it for my daughter and us and oooh it's so hard! It's everything has some amount of sugar even animal crackers! YUM!!! Well only yum since i have been prego! I am trying to cut down cuz i am overweight and my blood pressure was high last visit oh and his went from 152 to 157. So that is not good. So i been tring to eat just a lil icecream and sprinkles and thats it! Well thanks sorry so long.

I think water flushes everything, but I'm not sure how long it takes, I don't drink anything but water because I get really bad heartburn. By the way, don't feel bad about your weight, I eat what ever I want. I was 150 when I got pregnant and now I'm 194!!! I'm mostly belly, but my legs are much bigger. I'm very active and I walk a lot too. I think your nurse is being a little hard on you, my midwife told me to eat lots of fruits and veggies, and I do, but she also told me that ice cream is a good source of calcium!!! As long as your not diabetic you should have what ever your heart desires. Once I gained 10 pounds in 2 weeks!! Hope that makes you feel a little better. I say, Worry about the weight later. Taking care of an infant and then chasing a toddler will keep you in shape. I can't stand women that get pregnant and then want to worry about their shape, or staying skinny. Your baby will tell your body what it needs, and if it's animal crackers then so be it. I would be careful with caffine, but my midwife also told me I can have hot chocolate from time to time, just in moderation. By the way, Hersey's makes a 99% caffine free hot chocolate and it's so good!!! it's in any supermarket. I drink it and love it. This is getting long so take care!!

Thanks for your advice. Oh my lil girl is 5 years old. Well its cuz you know how they test your "speciman" when you go in she said i had to much sugar in it but they checked my sugar level and i was at 122. So i never lost my weight after my daughter but i will after this one! Soi text my ex last night to say i got his messages cuz i know if i didn't that might p__s him off and i dont need that. So anyway he text me to call him last night or this morning but i havent. I'm just gonna text him and ask him whats up cuz frankly i don't even want to hear his voice. How rude of me i guess! Well sorry so long.When i get talkin i cant stop!!! HEEHEE!!!

To SASHA- is that how your ex is? Well it's his apartment and he moved them girls in. As far as the other stuff i dont think he's doing. All the cheating and lies ,women threats about taking the kids away yeah. But he has his legal rights already on paper leagally. So he says he's not doing anything wrong but you know how men are.So i have no choice.I am not gonna fight anything-i have no grounds. Laws are laws and i do want my kids to see how their father is and make thier own opinion of course carfully. It sucks. I wish he could prove me wrong but ya rite. Well hope you have a merry christmas!

Well, I guess my ex just tops the cake when it comes to being irresponsible and cruel.

Sasha- well i don't feel rite about spreading detailed stuff about my ex cuz if he reads this he will be p__sed and i cant prove anything. But i don't doubt he's like your ex. But i know the laws and they are until the kids get hurt theres nothing we can do. I dont get it. IT has to be changed. I am so sorry for your situation. I have never been hit by any of my exs, well one did something bad but it wasn't a hit. So anyways i hope you are doing ok today. So are you prego rite now? I wish you lots of luck and hope you and your daughter have a merry Christmas. Hang in there ok?