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thank God, i am so happy for you and i'm glad you made all the decisions that you did. good luck with everything gurl. if he treated you that way, especially leaving you w/out food, i wouldnt let him have anything to do with YOUR baby. hopefully you have internet connection at home and keep us updated on everything. <3

Jill, I'm so glad to read that you've taken these measures. Good for you. And I'm so glad you've got such a good Mom to be there for you ~ you're very lucky. Regarding your question about whether or not it's his right to be there.. I wouldn't say a "right", but a personal choice that you should make. Personally, I wouldn't feel as though I was cheating him out of anything, seeing the choices he's made - but that is up to you. For the question about whether or not to give the baby his last name - I would urge you not to. That little baby is yours to care for, protect and love and you guys have a long road ahead of you - together. The baby should have YOUR last name. It needs to grow up, go into school, go into life as a little kid with an unyielding tie to you, it's Mom - the one who will *always* be there for him. Again, I'm really happy to hear that you've made the decisions you have. As hard as it probably seems right now, you really are making the right decision. Good luck to you. :-)

my baby is having my last name and I doubt that the fob will be there for the delivery...mostly because I don't think he wants to...but hospitals wont let anyone into your delievery room that you don't want to be there. GL, sorry this happen but you made the right choice.

I would say, not to already worry about birth and last name for the time being. Focus on your pregnancy, and mental and physical health. Do you expect your ex to call or contact you anytime soon...? Or do you think he is happy that you are gone?

That is great to hear!!! Well not that he is cheating on you but, that you are going home. When do you get to go home? Does he know?

I got back to ks (from nm) yesterday. He still never came home, still hasnt tried to call,nothing..im better off with my friends and family at home. I just dont understand how someone can not care about their own child. It breaks my heart, i feel like im torn in two ways. I love him to death, but i hate him more than anyone for doing this. Me and the little one never deserved this. Im sure many women feel this way.

yes i think a lot of women do feel that way but i just want to say to you, embrace this pregnancy. Now that you are home, embrace it. I've recently moved back homne and it is the best thing i've done. In a couple of weeks your little one will be moving around and its really exciting. Enjoy it. Pamper yourself and appreciate those around you. i don't know what the laws are where you are, but here in aust i don't have to give my baby his fathers last name. I discussed this with his father and we decided that we will write both on the birth certificate but for every day life he will take mine because i want my son to feel as though he belongs. I will always be there for my child, as i am sure you will be for yours, so i think it's important that we have the same last name. let me know how you go.

I am sorry. A lot of guys are like that and I don't understand either. If I were you I would just move on with my life. I know it might be hard to forget him but, you eventually will and you deserve someone who will treat a lot better. I am sure you will find someone that will be good to you and your child. good luck love, Michelle

Jill, thank God you are home and with family who love you and your baby. He doesn't deserve either one of you and I am soo happy to hear you removed yourself from that enviroment!! Oh my goodness, I couldn't imagine how a person could treat another person like that, but am so proud of you for having the respect for yourself and your baby to get outta there!! I wish you all the best with your pregnancy and life as a mother! I know you'll do great! :) :)