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Here's my situation: I'm 6 months pregnant with my boyfriends baby, this will be our first child. My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years, everything had been great for sometime, but I caught him cheating. Not with my own eyes, but many things lead up to him doing this behind my back. This weekend everything came out. I know he knew it was going to eventually come out and I think he tried his best to hide it, well this other girl that he's been cheating with got into contact with me and told me everything, although she was very rude to me and did her best to hurt my feelings with what she said. I confronted my boyfriend about his, he knew she was trying to get into contact with me, so he expected it. I told him he HAS to come clean and be honest and he did. I asked him a million questions and he answered them. It turned out that he was having s_x with this other girl while him and I were either broken up or fighting. I believe he led her to believe that she was his girlfriend and I was upset with him for allowing some woman to think that. There are ways to let a person know that you are not in a relationship with them, and I tried to explain this to him. Anyways, I've decided to stay with him (I know, I should have left him, but I want to give him this opportunity to show me he really is sorry and that it won't happen again) I told him that he has to earn my trust back and that how am I ever to trust him when him and I get into a fight, that he won't run off to her or someone else? He didn't answer, but I believe doing that is so wrong! No matter how big the fight is. I've never done that to him, when I'm mad at him, I just try to occupy my mind with friends or something else innocent. Anyways, my problem is this, I haven't yet mentioned this to him, but I plan to. Because of what happened with this other girl, I don't feel comfortable at all with him having any sort of contact with her. I don't trust him having a "friendship" with her, because I already tried to trust him with that and obviously it didn't work. I don't want him talking with her anymore because I'm afraid that she's going to string him in again or he'll continue to allow her to believe that they are still together. I want him to tell her straight up that NOTHING is going to happen between the two of them and that he can no longer be in contact with her. I want to tell him that if he wants me in his life then he cannot have her in his life because as long as she's around, she'll always try to be with him and treaten my relationship with him. She brings a lot of stress into my life and yes, I do have to admit so does he because he's the core of the problem, but I'm not sure if I have a right to say this, or demand this? I simply want to say "This is how it's got to be, if you want to continue to have a relationship with me then you have to eliminate her from your life. If you want to continue to have her some how apart of your life, then I cannot be apart of yours, you cannot have anything to do with me, and I will have to say goodbye" Do I have a right to ask this? I feel like I do only because he betrayed my trust. It's not like I'm asking him to rid someone I simply do not like or don't approve of, it's because he cheated on me with her for a VERY long time. I don't know what to do.