What To Do -pg118141948112
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Wow.. where to start? My first pregnancy.. I'm 25 years old.....
Well, I ended up getting pregnant with a guy who I really liked. I was on the pill, so it was unplanned. I didn't find out I was pregnant until I was about 2 and a half months along.
We never got into a relationship with each other before the pregnancy due to the fact that he had 3 jobs and went to school...He didn't have the time for a relationship... So when I told him I was pregnant, he of course used that as an excuse and is not really involved with me being pregnant. Not sure if he will come around after she is born, but I guess we will see.
It just seems that once I decided that I was going to keep her (I had planned on getting an abortion....) things just went to s***.
I really want this little girl... BADLY. I cry every time I think about the possibility of giving her away... and get kinda mad at myself for even thinking that... But right now, my previous roommate kicked me out due to me being pregnant, (because it would be too hard on her to make rent when I take maternity leave...) when she knew damn well when I moved in with her I was pregnant and keeping her... my car is dead and now has been towed, and I am staying on my friends couch cause I have no place else to go at the moment.....
*sigh* Anything anyone can offer... Advice.. Kind words... I'd love to hear something.. Thanks :)
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Have you spoken to your parents about this? Do you have family? Also, I don't know where you are from but you can go to your state welfare office and being pregnant, they can help you find a place to live. Sometimes temporary, sometimes not. How far along are you?
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Mia, I am sorry you dealing with all this. It must be terrible for you, but remember it is temporary, and your baby will be yours for the rest of her life. My mother had me at 15 and, for while, didn't have anything either. She was kicked out and had to struggle to make it. She worked 2 jobs while attending highschool, but she got through it, and things turned out fine. She was a great mom, and made the sacrifices she had to make to get me where I am today. (I am 29 and expecting my first.) Keep your head up, look into govt a__sistance, and good luck!
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