When Do I Tell My Baby S Daddy
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Now I know for a fact that he is not going to support me. Hell, I just found out that he had a second child. So I know he won't be thrilled about his third. This is my first child and I'm very excited. Although my family is disappointed in me because 1. I'm single 2. he's the father! He and I never been in a commited relationship, but we have had a friendship for years. I've known him since I was 8 years old! So we truly have history. I'm scared to death to tell him. I don't know if I should tell him now or wait about a month. Or does it matter. To tell the truth I'm scared of his reaction.
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If your scared of his reaction you shold have a friend/family member with/around you when you tell him. Does it really matter if you tell him now or in a month when you feel more comfortable with the information that your having his child? Im not saying dont tell him till your far along but maybe take a breather to take everything in and feel more comfortable. Take care and Good luck
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I say tell him now and get it over with.
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go ahead and tell him. no matter what his reaction will be it will be the same whether you tell him now or wait a month to tell him so just get it over with so that you will know whether he is going to be around or not. the more you put it off the more you will be stressing over it. just go ahead and get it out. take care
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Are you just scared of his reaction? or is he violent? If you're just scared he will reject you for then just tell him the worse he can do is not want to be a part of the baby's life. And sometimes that is for the better. Its better he leave now then to waste years with someone who does not want to really be involved. You seem like you know you want to have this baby either way so best of luck to you. Children are wonderful enjoy this pregnancy and your new baby. It could be the only chance you ever have to give birth to a wonderful little baby so don't take it for granted. Babies are a lot of work but the joys of motherhood far out wiegh any negatives.
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