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My situation with my boyfriend is a little different. He and I have been working together, very well for about 6 months. Neither one of us have any intention of switching jobs at this time. I just found out that I am pregnant. He wants me to abort. He does not want the child at all. He says he isn't ready. He's 31 and already has a 9 yr old daughter with his ex wife. He's a great father to her, but does not want this child. How is he ready for one kid but not the other. I'm so hurt by his words. He says we should do this later when the time is right but the time is never right. I told him the thought of an abortion is too much for me and not something I want to do, and said if I do this this not only will he not have anything to do with me but that I should leave town because he doesn't want to see me ever again and especially not walking around with his baby. I must also add that he is afraid that this baby won't turn out ok because of all the bad things (like drugs) he's been doing. What to do?
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I say stay, contuine working and if he has the problem then he can leave. And if it was just "HIM" doing the drugs I wouldn't worry too much...even if you were doing the drugs the possiblity is slim especailly if you stop now. My cousin was doing speed when she got pregnant, heck my mom was doing LSD when she got pregnant with my brother. Both turn out fine. But please dont get the abortion everyone I have ever talk to who got it for someone else regrets it. And some of these people did it when they were teenagers and they are now in their late 50s and they still cry about the child they killed. If he wants to be a child about this, then let him be the child but don't quit a good job and leave town just because of him. Now if it gets to hard for you, perhaps there is family or friends that can help you. I don't know all the details so I can't give much advice but all I can say is Good Luck and you will make it through I know it.
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