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pedro..I had a good old chuckle atyour post because in my circle noone sits and reads books to a 18 day old newborn thinking that he understands lol...and like the other poster said when the baby is sleeping..you do other things lol....also to jess who is fixated on what I said..its easy to take words out of context . This is what I said I would like to tell you that I hate all of you who prey on these young girls like vultures" I hate those women who pray on these young girls...if you feel offended then I guess you realize that you have preyed on young girls in a vulturous way and you have a reason to feel guilty and offended. Imnot a trick but i guess I am a trick with kids so all this is neither here nor there for me at this point. *yawn*

This started because people prey on vulnerable girls who are trying to get advice. TOUGH if it hurts a couple feelings...chances are if you are offended you deserve it and like someone said before, you are probably guilty of something. Try to shut your defensive mouth and think about how you offended you would be if you were newly pregnant and very emotional about it, then you ask for advice and people reply with a basic 'give me your baby' line. SUPER RUDE!!! If your are willing to beg and dang near steal a child you really do not need one because that shows no respect for life!!!!

I was simply pointing out to the half-blind person that I didn't "insert things that aren't there and then respond". As for feeling guilty, don't see why I should, seeing as I am pregnant and single myself, and yes, some people did ask me if I wanted to give them my baby, including the ones mentioned on here. I politely replied that I was keeping my baby, I just wanted advice. It wasn't so hard to do and that was the end of it. None of them ever asked again and some even gave me helpful advice. Perhaps you all should give us "vulnerable young women" some credit for being able to stand up for ourselves, no-one asked you to badmouth other people on our behalf. Guess I just don't like nasty people who can't mind their own business. May I suggest perhaps an animal welfare shelter or something if you feel you need a cause to fight for.

Shut up you tired little GIRLS! Like I said you can dish it out but you can't take it! And it seems that your feelings are hurt! And my point is proven, Aishah can't read. If you had READ my post you would have understood what I meant when I said, "While your little baby is rocking silently in his chair, pick up a book and read him a story or can you even do that?" At no point did I say while the baby is asleep. I know the baby is not ALWAYS asleep you lame brain! Have you ever heard of reading to the baby in utero or do you even know WHAT THAT IS??? Babies can hear while they are in the womb. Do your research boo-boo and find that out for yourself! If you don't want to be hit up by the "adoption trolls" then stop trying to get women on here to give you professional advice. THEY CAN'T!

I think that is very good advice!!!!!

Look you half brained excuse for masculinity...i am a mother.I know how to take care of my infant. I have a newborn, Newborns eat, sleep and poop in no particular order with hardly any times of alertness. When My bambino is swaying in his swing...I do mommy things like ohh...EAT...and......DRINK..you know things that new mommies have to do..As for what to do when the baby is in utero..Give Me a break will ya..I dont need advise from a male on how best to stimulate my child...lol. I doubt you know half of what Iknow on the child in utero and the neonate....reading websites like this do not a scholar make..ok Mr Internet Scholar...and jess...blah blah blah...peace ! Aisha

Although they can hear in the womb, they don't hear very well. Studies have proven they they can remember or respond to things they heard in the womb, but other studies suggest all of this stimulation is useless and maybe stressful to the fetus in utero because you maybe disturbing it's sleep.

I agree, seems they can dish it out, but when the tables are turned, that whole talk to the hand mentality comes out. I don't want to hear it cause it might mean I have to face up to my own b****iness and immaturity. I know heaps of people who read to their newborns, they love to hear their mummys' voice, as they hear it in the womb and recognise it when they come out. As for disturbing the fetus' sleep, umm, does that mean that we should be as quiet as possible and creep around? Weird. The more you get baby used to noise the better, they will sleep a lot easier on the outside.

They can really only hear YOUR ( the mother's) voice and other very loud sounds. Of course some people also play cla__sical music for their fetus and use headphones and the like. I suppose if you actually had looked into this you would know that.

dunno where you read that, everything I've read says baby can hear a lot that goes on outside, and can usually recognize Daddys' voice as well. Guess I'll just ask baby after the birth rather than take your word for it.

Discovery channel... They did a whole program on what the fetus can and can't hear while in the womb. If Daddy has a LOUD voice or gets real close to the belly, sure, the kid can hear it - otherwise it's just the mothers voice. Everything else is blocked out by all that FLUID it's floating in... Yeah, do the research...

I don't have a problem with someone who wants to adopt a baby coming on the forum and making a thread with their e-mail address. Usually they just post their e-mail and leave it at that, but there are women here who are insane about wanting a baby. At the top of the list is Cheryl/bctraveler. That woman is out of her mind, and obviously doesn't have a shread of moral fiber even though she preaches Christianity. I hope that those who are looking to adopt do get to become parents, but they should leave the women on this forum alone.

dont bad mouth Cheryl. She is a good person when you get to know her privately

i wish folks would get there info from more thanjust one place. isaw it on discovery, that's the end of it, i am right? discovery is a great chanel dont get me wrong, but there are loads of other info sources that contradict what you said, it's called...