Advice Please-pg111353405718
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i am preg, and my b/f wants nothing to do w/ me, he say's he will help out finacially, other then that he wants no tie, he first wanted me to abort. should i even bother calling anymore
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Girlie, If you think you can do it on your own I say CUT him loose and be the strong hold for both you and that BABY of yours, my babys father doesnt want me ANYMORE either... but thats mostly because he cant offer me anything. Remember its THEIR loss!!! We're not completely alone anymore (we have a little one). I'm 20 and 12 weeks preg. email me at Dkangel102@aol.com is you want to chat.
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I know how you feel... i haven't talked to my ex in over a month (i'm 26 weeks pregnant) do yourself a favor and don't call him or try to contact him. It really got easier for me to deal with the breakup after I stopped talking to him. and just as Mari said... it's HIS loss... he's missing out on all this great stuff during the pregnancy, but you're not! and that's all that matters. Know what's weird? when i got upset over my ex, I would watch the ultrasound video and that always comforted me. Something about knowing I'm gonna have a baby girl who's gonna love me like my ex never could (and I already love her more than anything) is just comforting. So remember that you're carrying around the love of your life, and maybe that'll help.
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