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You are not alone, I had an ex tell me as we were on and off again how badly he wanted a baby, we conceived to our surprise very quickly and now he says he is dating and doesn't care if I have it or not. He rarely returns my phone calls and now I know that I am alone and it scares the hell out of me!! Please be strong! Try and think of yourself and the baby, not him and how he feels. That is very important.

what did you ever decide and what happened?

I know how you feel...i am 6 weeks pregnant & my boyfriend doesnt take it seriously and wants me to get ana aborsion! Just hang in there for the baby and if u need anyone to talk to i.m. me at [littlemisstwin92]! bye!

Wow. I can't believe how many other women are in the same situation as myself! I am 11 weeks pregnant, and was dating my boyfriend for 5 mos. At first he tried to be there for me, but he is so immature, he chose partying over me, and told me that he didn't want a relationship with me any longer. He keeps saying he wants to be a part of the child's life, but I don't know if I believe him. He only calls me once a week, and makes small talk with me, and barely every asks how I am doing w/the pregnancy. I feel so lonely and depressed, and I can't believe how blind I was to think that this man every cared about me. I think in his heart he would like me to have chose to aboard, but I am 34 and it just wasn't an option for me. I feel that I am making the right choice, regardless of what an a__s he is. If anyone would like to email me and share stories, my email is rollergirl7020@yahoo.com I would love to get and give support for other women in my shoes.

i am astonished at how many women are going through this....this is happening to me also, i am 7 weeks preg. and my b/f has stated if i don't have an abortion its over.....i feel alone like many of you do out there.......this is so sad and horrible and you think it can never happen to you and it does

im in the same position, im 12 weeks and my brfrynd told me he would stand by me then he changed his mind and has told me to terminate or he will dust his hands of me!!! im keeping the baby as i couldnt terminate i would regret it. I will manage without him it will be hard but worth it

Do not sign anything!! Even if he doesn't want to be a part of the baby's life, legally he still has to help you financially. You are going to need all the help you can get.

Its tough but you will get through it. I did! And soon you will see that for every problem there is a solution. The empty double bed? My midwife gave me the all clear to have baby next to me. I loved it. I didn't have to get out of bed to feed my little one, simply b___st fed her and we slept soundly together. Concerned that the child needs a dad? Well there is plenty of research to indicate that single parents can produce happy and healthy children just as much as couples. I'm pregnant again and I now have someone that wants to be there for the pregnancy. But the strange thing is I think going alone was much simpler, less stressful and my baby and I got the bed to ourselves. When you are doing it alone you only have to please yourself and not the other partner. This means that during a very busy and stressful time in your life, you have one less worry. Some men may be supportive during the pregancy and become jealous when baby comes along. Or that they get bored with the routine soon after. Relax and put your faith into something higher and trust that everything will work out just fine. Try and Smile and don't sign anything.

sweetheart am in the same d__n situation, and i only buried my mother 8days ago, am alone without any savings but i trust God. Forget him and make the best out of what you ve got, he is a loser and never loved you. time wil heal you, you child will bring you joy. and God will forgive us, His word says His mercy triumphs over judgement. Sandra

I was asked to have an abortion. Said no... tried to work through it, but he couldn't handle it. The last thing he said to me as he walked out the door was that I was a disappointment. Hmmm... that's the pot calling the kettle black!

I am 31 weeks pregnant, and the father of my child has pretty much denied his responsability as a father, and I know that something like that is very hard to accept, the in the end, the reality of the situation is, YOU DON'T NEED HIM. Besides would you really want someone like that to raise your child?

He stated that he wants nothing to do with the baby or you. He still has al egal obligation to his child to support him/her. He will have nothing to do with the baby wether or not you sign this agreement. He might be trying to have you do this as a way to have you prove your feelings for him, & dont do this hoping he will come running back..he wont and you will only be all alone like you are now. Make him accountable or the state will..he has demonstrated he wont be a father so dont worry about him being in the way...you're better off.

Everything started wonderful as usual. I am alone as you are. My whole family lives in Puerto Rico and I have no one here in Houston, Texas. I am 6 weeks pregnant. The relationship became mentally abusive since he though that he owned me and that I have to do everything his way. No consideration towards me, only when he is happy everything is wonderful. Also he never wants to communicate he says is too complicated. He told he doesn’t want the baby and wishes the baby was dead. So if you need a friend email me at Stevenson.caroline gmail.com There is always some doing worst. The baby will heal everything.

Trust me, you are not the only 1! I'm 22, 7 weeks pregnant & very single. I've only known my childs father for 2 months but oh well! I refuse to have an abortion & I've accepted the fact that I will be a single parent. He doesn't want me to have the baby & he said every hurtful thing he could think of to convince me to have an abortion. I'm moving home soon to be near family & friends. As long as I'm near my family I won't worry about him. I know this is gonna be tough but we have to stay strong for our children! I wish you the best! :)

Well he sounds like a jerk. If he feels that way I would sign it but I would have an attorney look it over. Maybe the state has probono attornies . If he is freeing himself of his legal obligations make sure it states in the papers that he is also giving up all parental rightl. If not he can decide to come back many years down the road and say oh I want to be a part of the babies life now. Trust me when they aren't in their life untill they are about six it is hard on your child. It is like being forced to see a stranger. My son used to cry when he had to go see his father. Don't worry about him though you will meet someone else and life will go on. Look at me I have now been married for 8 years and have three kids and my son is 12 and everything is fine, How old are you are your parents helping you?

I am 31 weeks pregnant and I too am a single parent. The father said in the beginning he would be there for us bt slowly he began distancing himself from me. I finally told him to leave us alone and I will do it alone. It is better to have the support from friend sand family than to have someone who really does not want to be there. I knew from day one that I had to make changes in my life and my mindset to be strong and not depend on the father. It is unfortunate when the guy does not take responsibilty for his actions but you will be fine. Do not stress yourself because you don't need your baby in any type of distress. Pray and talk to freinds and family. Once you hold your baby in your arms, your entire att_tude towards life will change. It will not be easy, but you can do it. Good luck!