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Hello, I can imagine how hard this time must be for you!!! I know how important it is to have the support from someone you love, specially when there is a connection between you and them..... I know you need the support in every aspect of this pregnancy....... So I know where your heart is at and the pain you are going through.... But doll things will work out, in any direction you go...... The hurt will pa__s in time, I know it seems like it wont, but trust me it will..... Who knows things may change when the baby arrives....... But things sometimes don't change...... But know that if they don't..... you need to be strong and know this is the best thing in your life that has happend... I know from experiance, I have been through this twice in my life, And wow I can tell you that nothing anyone can say... can make it better...... This is just something you will have to work out.... But honey if this don't work out, There is really something else out there better, you just have not found it yet...... But you will :o) I am here for you and you can always email me at runningfree_0096 AT yahoo dot com... I will be here through out your pregnancy and try to help any where I can.... So stay in touch...... I am always here :o) ( I am just a click away)

This is very similar to my story and I am truly sorry you have to go through this. The most important thing is that you take care of yourself for the sake of the baby and draw on support from your family and friends. Allow him to deal with his issues on his own if he is not providing the emotional support that you need. Mindy is correct in that nothing anyone will say can make it better. I cant even say I am fully over it and the fact that he doesnt see his child (although he says he wants to) doesnt make it easier. I try to realize that there is something better. Your baby deserves all the care in the world and you will have to keep yourself physically and emotionally together as possible.

Wow. I really feel for you rockyvsappollo. But like the other post said, be strong and know that other women have managed to do it on their own and be happy in the end. I just found out I'm pregnant and my boyfriend of 2 years (and friend for many years before that) told me he doesn't want the baby. No discussion. Just that he doesn't want it. It was definitely not what I expected. I cried a lot over that and I'm sure I'll cry some more in the future. At the same time, I think, he's the one that's going to lose out on something wonderful. And if he comes around, well, we'll see...but I'm not holding my breath for someone who isn't there when I need him most. To me, somebody that ditches a woman when she's pregnant is highly immature and more than a little bit selfish. So sadly, sometimes it's just better to move on.