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Just wanted to give you ladies a little update. I had a serious talk with my boyfriend yesterday and I gave him an ultimatum. I gave him 2 weeks to get a good job and told him he must keep it and he must stop all the drinking and smoking and hanging out he’s been doing our he’s out of my house for good, its technically our apartment because we moved in together but he knows he will have to be the one to leave. I explained to him that I’m doing this to help him because I can no longer enable him by putting up with his behavior. We had a really good talk and I told him that I know that no woman can change a man, but that I want better for him and our child and I want him to be a man that his child can look up to and respect. When I got home from work he told me he had made a few calls and that he has an interview today to potentially work at a construction site for a 2 year project so I’m hoping this goes well (fingers crossed). I know that there’s no guarantee that he will make this change but I’ve told him I will not wait and that if he doesn’t show me something within these 2 weeks that I’m threw. I feel really good about my decision and I told him no matter if we can work it out or not I want us to be friends and that he has got to get his life together if he wants to be a part of my life. I know that some of you think I’ve put my daughter in a terrible situation by putting up with him behaving like this the past month. My daughter has no idea about the pot smoking or drinking because he did these things outside of our house. She also has no idea about him quitting his job and not working for the past month because like I said he’s been “hanging out” with his friends so much that he hasn’t been around a night and that’s when he was working. My daughter is not old enough to know about these things and I would never ever put her in harms way. It’s true she might have sensed some tension in the house and that’s not good, but I would never allow him to do these things in front of her or in our house. My daughter also does not know of my pregnancy yet. In my talk with my boyfriend I even told him that I might reconsider having this child (not sure what to do) and he became very disappointed. I have a doctor’s appointment on Feb. 2nd and will have my first ultrasound to find out my exact due date because my cycle is not regular and I had to guess when my last period was so I could be more or less than the 12 weeks. I’m not sure how everything will work out but I wanted to think you all for your comments and opinions!

TO you sure know how to pick em, There mustve been something wrong with your origional post that you replied to "confused" with because it isnt even on here anymore for others to view. The first post from you now that is listed is your response saying you are a female.... No one needs to tell you how it was rude, it should be proof enough that it was removed from the forum.....

It really doesn't take much to have a post or entire thread removed. Unpopular opinions get poor tasted very easily and often. Sometimes they are not rude at all just unpopular like I mentioned before.

So you still dont see that telling someone she shouldnt have gotten knocked up was rude? It was obviously a little late for that advice and it was removed because it was rude not because it was unpopular. You giving that advice may have been useful before getting pregnant but to say that to her in her current situation was just meant to be mean and you are in denial. She asked for advice on her current situation, not what she couldve done months ago....

as much as you may like to believe it, I am not "you girls" so you wasted your keystrokes. I only offered alternatives as to why the post was removed and actually could not care less about this persons problem. The thread is highly entertaining which is why I keep looking in on it. Click away!