Do Nothing Dads

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Tonia - September 17

Okay, I dated the guy I had a major crush on for 5 years. We dated for like a month before having s_x, which was really stupid. He tried getting me to sleep with him before that but I wouldn't because I already have a child, and really didn't want to risk getting pregnant. He finally got me to sleep with him by saying that we'd use a condom and he'd pull out, and besides if I did get pregnant at least I'd have a real man to be there for me and the baby. My daughter's father isn't really there and has issues with anger. So I believed my boyfriend after all, I'm in love. Well he broke up with me after a month of avoiding me, which really wasn't that hard since this was a long distance relationship he is a fire fighter and is currently working like 3 hours away so I only got to see him once a week. Well, a week after he dumped me, I know I'm pregnant, so I called him and told him. He's telling me to give the baby up for adoption, he wants nothing to do with it, and that it will ruin his life. Then adds that he wishes he had never met me. Right now I am very glad that I don't have to worry about running into him, although I still love him and am hurt cuz the day he dumped me he had a new girlfriend. I don't really care that he doesn't love me, but that he doesn't care about his child!

 

baby_aiyana - September 18

I know how you feel... I have been with the same guy for 3 and a half years about and the first time I got pregnant he forced me into getting and abortion, and I did, I did not want to risk losing him, and I thought I was making the right choice. Abortion is never the right choice! anyways, so I found out I am pregnant again and he wants nothing to do with it and says it will ruin his life as well and would rather leave then stay and just support my decision of keeping it. guys can be so selfish and hurtful! I mean I can see him not wanting anything to do with me, but I can't wrap my mind around the fact he could be so cold towards his own baby! I am sorry for your situation!

 

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