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just being a wise guy--de nile --the nile
river ---hey kid ---u know i know your girl knows ---a blind man c/ see through this farce---run man--you're a nice kid ----you'll do fine ---
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Okay. So far things are better. Rebecca is trying to find out whom the sperm donar was...because even though I am a virgin...I did donate once...You never know it may be mine after all. I will let you know as soon as I know. thanks for all your support and advice.
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Why did you donate your sperm to the sperm bank??? Doesn't matter if your a virgin or not. Did you want to just impregnant some stranger? If anyone is cheating....it's the both of you. So...you both made a mistake....although some people say "once a cheater, always a cheater" that is not ture in every situation. I think you guys should just try to work it out.
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We are still waiting for the test results. The lady at the clinic said that there was a greater chance of the baby being someone elses than mine, but there is like a 25% chance the baby may be mine. I am hoping it is...it would be kinda strange though....considering we did not have s_x to create the baby....anyway....just thought I would update you all on what is happening so far...will hopefully find out the results soon...I guess they look up whose sperm she used....they keep track of whom gets impregnanted by whom so yeah....well I will let you know more a.s.a.p. Bye.
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We called the cliinic today....they will have the results by tomorrow. Hopefully we get them early in the day. I will update you as soon as I get the results.
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Your girl is schizo... you should wonder about her mental health. I think that you believe this story either makes you two the perfect weirdo couple or you guys are both just insane. I think you're making all this up, because if the bank said its a 25% chance its yours that means that you donated a hell of a ton of sperm or only 3 other people donated. WEIRD WEIRD WEIRD
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To Dude-ette, I am NOT making this up! The clinic keeps track of whoms dontated sperm impregnantes whom. I am not entirely sure why.....but they do. The reason the woman at the clinic said there is a 25% chance of me being the donar becuase there were only 5 christian males whom donated...and Rebecca refused to be impregnanted by a non-christian. She got a lie dectector test, and she only lied of one thing that happend back when we first met, and I already knew of that. If you choose not to believe my situation that is up to you. To those whom are being supportive and giving me advice on here....I will update asap. Goodbye.
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I got the results back. Apparently Rebecca knew that I donated, saw my little paper I have that said so...and she wanted a baby with me bad. So that's why she went to the clinic, told them that I donated, and if my "supply of men" were still there that she wanted it. So they implanted my sperm in her and so on. She said she was hopeing not to show till around after we got married, were getting married in a month and a half, and normally women don't start to show till they are 3 1/2 or farther along. The reason for that is so she could surprise me then. Glad she told me now though. Even though what she did was a little crazy, (she is not crazy for those of you whom thought / think so) but she did it because she really wanted a baby, and for the baby to be mine. I forgive her for what she has done, not only cause the Lord asks us to be forgiving, but because I love her, and want to be with her always. Now we have our bundle of joy on the way. It's kinda wierd though cause she's pregnant with my baby, and technically were both virgins still. :) Well I will let you know more as soon as I can. Rebecca said she may post on here a little too....so she can tell you first hand on what's happening. Well again thanks for all the helpfull and supporting advice. God Bless.
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What are you BOTH CrAzY and not know it???
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i'm sorry if i don't sound supportive but this whole situation just sounds so wacky. i thought donations were kept private???... and if she believed you couldn't have children, wouldn't she have wondered why you would have donated your sperm? by the way, why did you donate sperm? and if she believed you couldn't have children why would she request your sperm? and if she did request your sperm why didn't she tell you that in the beginning? why did she make you wonder? if you're both virgins why didn't she just wait until you were married, either to try it the old fashioned way or to discuss going to the sperm bank? so close to your wedding and she couldn't wait to have a baby? sorry to sound so sceptical but this seems pretty far fetched to me. if this story is true i'm so sorry you have to go through such a horrible, weird experience.
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To Confused... This is really weird but it is true. She only heard that I could not have children from my sister. She knew that I went to the bank cause she found my paper that I got from the place saying that I donated my sperm. Though it has been rough and weird, I am still going to marry her. We have known each other for years, since we were little, and now were going to get married, even though this odd, strange, sad, and crazy thing happend, I will just put it behind me, cause already everything except her being pregnant is a thing of the past because it was about a week ago. Well even though were having our baby only 7 months after were married, I don't really care at this point. I am going to be a "Papa" now, and I am so excited and can't WAIT! Thanks again for all the advice.
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That this is fake....even though it is a little believeable...still I think that it's fake!
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WELL I'M CALLING BS. 1) YOU SAID YOU CALLED HER DR. AND HE TOLD YOU. WELL THAT CAN'T BE TRUE DUE TO CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION. 2) THE FACT THAT YOU SISTER WOULD JOKE ABOUT THAT SEEMS PRETTY FAR FETCHED SINCE YOU WOMAN NEW YOU DONATED SPERM. 3) THIS WHOLE THING SOUNDS STUPID, SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING OFF OF LIFETIME. GROW UP LITTLE BOY AND GET A CLUE BEFORE YOU START CREATING LIES.
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DUDE DON'T BE MAD THAT SOMEONE CALLED YOU OUT......
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d__n i read this thread and thought lies lies lies...can i get a price on that bridge over in the Bk please "-)
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