Father Wants Abortion I Dont
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I am 20 yrs. old and I found out at 5 weeks that I was pregnant. I am now 9 weeks exactly. Since i've found out, i've not been getting along with my boyfriend, who is the father of my child, regarding whether or not I get an abortion. My history is that i'm a type 1 diabetic, and before I suspected that I was pregnant, I was an uncontrolled diabetic. Since then, i've taken full responsibility and have turned my entire life around by actually taking care of my diabetes. My boyfriend feels as if were not ready. Seeing as how this will be his 3rd kid, me being the 3rd girl. I was on the pill, missed ONE for a whole 24 hours, and I didnt tell him that i missed a p___sed. I've missed them before, and took it the next day, and everything was fine. His argument is that i'm the one who messed up my bc, and didnt tell him, so I should be the one who deals with the consequences. Meaning dealing with having an abortion instead of him dealing with raising another kid. I'm so confused as to what I should do. I am completely against abortions. Not to mention there are serious health risk that come along with it since i'm a diabetic. He says i'm being very selfish. And no matter how much I tell him I dont want to do it, he still bugs me EVERY DAY about getting one. Advice please?
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Congratulations on taking control of your diabetes. Don't let go of that come what may. I don't have much sympathy for his att_tude on responsibility. That's a cop-out. If it was so important not to father another child he should have abstained or at least used condoms as well as having you on the pill. This doesn't alter the bottom line, which is that you have to decide on your course of action knowing full well that you will get little or no child support. Should you continue with this pregnancy knowing how it will affect the lives of yourself and all your progeny, or should you overcome your scruples and start life afresh?
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If you are single and pregnant, you don't have to be! Check out my profile for Facebook page information on finding a man that will love and adore you during and after your pregnancy, or search 'Pregnant and Single' in Facebook. I have also established a Yahoo group called 'PREGNANTNSINGLENLA' to put single pregnant women together with men who possess a strong s_xual attraction for pregnant woman. So, if you're still pregnant and single, that is purely your choice as you don't have to be.
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