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usually me n the babys father fought and it would be physical but he never hit me in the face! today he crossed the line and smacked me ( even knocking off my glasses) and i started bleeding from my mouth! i cant believe it got to this point. im so devastated cuz im 13 weeks now and i dont know what 2 do!!! please someone give me advice. i know i dont wanna be with him nemore and i cant put myself in harm any longer!
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Leave him. Go to the battered womens shelter in your area. You need to get out before it gets worse. Because he may promise up and down that he will never do it again but he will and it will be a little worse everytime. I am dead serious. Leave his a__s. Think about you and your baby. Throw love aside because as much as I hate to say it, if he loved you he wouldnt beat you. I HATE WOMEN BEATERS!!!!!!!! Leave his dumb a__s. No one deserves that. You and your baby are better off with out you having to worry about your safety. GL!!
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my bad i meant verbal dispute
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Actually he wont. He could try to get custody but wont unless he can prove that you are an unfit mother. You could use that in court but I seriously doubt that it will go that far. If he is paying child support then he does have a right to see his child. But you could also say that he is not and he would have to pay for a paternity test! Also what robyn says is completly true.
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If I where in your position, I would definitely make a report on this situation. I am very sorry for this. I had two abusive relationships and I can tell you that I know that it is very hard to deal with sometimes. I hope everything works out well...
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I wanted to add, you should get this months issue of Cosmopolitan. They have a article in there about how to spot abusers and I cant believe how accurate it is. I was in a abusive relationship and it was like they were reading the story of my life.
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Dear Ashley, you need to protect your self and your baby. You may love him, but love yourself more and leave. I was once in an abusive relationship and it only gets worse. There is a cycle that happens. You don't need to waste your time to go through a cycle with him, just get out fast. If he hit you while you were pregnant, it seems he has no respect to human life especially an innoccent unborn child. Sweet heart please don't suffer any more you deserve better. Look in the phone book, check your resources for help. See a couselor they are good at fing resources that will help you and protect you. Take care
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