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im 16 and feel soo alone. im 8 weeks pregnant and last week i had a scare with a miscarriage while my (ex) bf was on holiday with his friends but when i told him he didnt even seem tht bothered because he wanted me to have an abortion any way. hes 26 and only recently finished things with me and is already seein other girls for s_x.(im sure he did this while he was with me for the 8 months we were together) and it is really killin me inside and breaking my heart because i just cant get over him. sometimes he doesnt want to know me then other times hes singing my praises. non of my friends or family like him but i love him so mch how can is top myself runnin bak to him whne he needs s_x and move on. even tho i reali want him in my life so badly!
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thanks for the great relpy melissa, thats the best advice ive had concerning him,everything u said about him is exactly right and im slowly realiseing that, thank you. x
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I agree with Melissa. I would forget about this guy and report him for statutory rape. I know you think you love him and you can't get over him, but trust me... you don't love him and you WILL get over him. My ex dumped me when I was 4 months pregnant, then got engaged 3 months later to a girl he barely knew. By the time our daughter was born, I was over him. Couldn't have cared less on whether I saw him or not. He wasn't in our daughter's life until she was 8 months old. I'm around him all the time now and I still don't have any feelings left for him. You know why? Because I always think back of the hell he put me through when I was pregnant and it disgusts me. He disgusts me. Why would I want to be with a guy who would do that to ANY girl, let alone me? I wouldn't!! There are PLENTY of great guys out there that will be willing to love you for you, and love your baby as their own. Just right now, concentrate on taking care of yourself and your baby and finishing school. Everything else will fall into place later, just keep your head straight in the mean time.
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