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Don't call the wife and start problems. That's being vindictive......Have you even told the ex yet? Why would you think of calling the wife first? I can't believe that's the first thing that would pop into your head! Are you proud and want to rub it in her face? And do you hate her because she is MARRIED to him and your NOT? You need to let the ex know first off......and let nature take it's course with the rest. The wife will find out eventually wether you tell her or not and when she does, I hope she leaves his sorry a__s. As for you, I won't get into it........you'll get a lashing from everyone else!

No I would DEFINITELY call the wife.... I think she DESERVES to know what her husband has been doing and that he has a baby with another woman. Just make sure you're not mean about it though. I'm not sure why you hate her, but put yourself in her position. What if you were married and your husband had been cheating on you and had a baby with the girl? How would that make you feel? I know I would be extremely hurt and I would want to know about it. No way would I want to stay married to someone who would cheat on me. It's the same reason why I'll never understand why girls mess around with married men. How could you hurt someone like that (the wife)? I'm not trying to make you feel bad here and I'm definitely not trying to judge you, but my goodness. I guess since I've been cheated on and knows what it feels like, I'll never understand how someone could put someone else through that.

WHY would you hate her? SHE never did anything to you.....

i think you should tell her. if you dont , she probally may never find out when he does it again. if my hubby was cheating, i would want someone to tell me. there is too many diseases out there for her not to know. she and as well as you, are probally sleeping with 50 more people and dont know it because of another girl he is sleeping with and who they are sleeping with ......

defo dont call his his wife!! can u imagine how u would feel if another women called u to tell you he was cheating on u with her .. its not nice is it?

I was wondering why you hate his wife.And for MelissaP - How is that being vindictive by calling his wife to let her know her husbamds a jerk?

I think that it is his responsoblility to tell his wife. I'm sure you hate her and I can understand that... but if he has a family with her(which I dont know).... then you dont want to cause more problems..let him talk to her.

So what happens if he decides to just not tell his wife?Then i think someone should tell her.

His wife WILL find out.... trust me.... wait a little and discuss it with the man....dont tell her!! talk to your man!! and yea I said HER MAN!!

to mummy_tummy: it was the way she said it that is vindictive. She states that she hates her...i dont think she is calling to tell the wife because the husband is sleazy jerk and she wants him exposed...she is making it sound like she wants to rub her pregnancy in her face.(for whatever reason) That is definetly vindictive and plain mean!

maybe i misunderstood the post..but that's they way it sounds to me......

Haha, are you serious? it isn't her problem it's yours that you got yourself pregnant. How old are you 12? you must be, only young immature brats like to start drama and problems instead of doing it calmly and rationally. And how could you possibly go on the internet looking for solutions to your life and seriously expecting some real good answers. You need to grow up especially for that baby you are going to have, and really sit down and think about what you are going to do. His wife doesn't deserve some little childish girl like you calling her home causing trouble for her.

Yep that's what I think too... do'nt call his wife... tell him first.. if you havn't already and go from there. He either has to tell her or when you take him to court for support she will find out.. I would want to know yes if my husband was cheating but not from the little skank he was cheating with. She will find out all in good time im sure. You have no need to hate her.. sehs married to the man lol lol she has total reason to hate you though. next time maybe say no when they say they are married.. cause 90% of the time he wants a__s from you and nothing else.. he may treat you good but he has NO intention what so ever on leaving his wife.. and im sure he didn't mean to get you pregneat.. as now she will know the truth.. So you both will pay really.

Oh my, what a horrible mess! Not only an affair with a married man, now a child will come out of this scenario... Malia, can you explain why you “hate“ your married exboyfriend's wife...? Is there a possibility you can begin to make something positive out of all this--besides the HPT : )