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i know this is not the norm but here goes. I am a 29 year old guy who is single but would love to have a family. I am unable to have children. the problem I have is this. I would love to start a relationship with someone who is pregnaunt so that I may be envolved with them from as close to the time of conception as possible. the problem is that most people who are pregnaunt plan on being with there mate and if by some chance somthing happens that splits them up there is also alot of drama that comes with that relationship. The other problem is that most of the time it takes a while to get to know an person and find out if you are a match. obviously there are time constraints with this situation due to the pregnauncy? does anyone have any suggestions for me? thanks
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cindy why would you say pathetic. I know it is not the best of situation but I don't think you understand the whole situation?
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Why dont you let life take its course ? adopt? why search for something so outrageous?
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vtach- i dont think that it is pathetic to want a family. get to know them and be with them as much as possible but you may find that it is hard to really know someone in 9 months and that it may take longer to build a relationship with them especially if they are just getting out of a relationship. maybe you could go to one of those dating sites that match people up to you that may be compatible with you. sorry i cant give more advice.
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I don't think this persons serious..
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Of course he cant be. Do you think any sane women would respond to his wishes. What pregnant woman especially a single one would start a relationship with a internet stranger? Not a very serious one thats for sure. This post is pathetic and cindi was right!
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first off I would like to say that I haven't as of yet try to find anyone. this was just somthing I was comtemplating. Secondly for those of you who are quick to judge..well I know this isn't the norm but i did come on here to be bashed or to be called pathetic. I see alot of sad stories on here. I am not one of those men that all these unfortunate mothers are dealing with. I am attemping to try amd make a difficult situation turn possitive if it is possible. By the way I agree with you all ...it is a little crazy but how elese does a guy who can't have kids experiance the miricle of child birth outside this situation. and to emma I am not looking for somone on this site, i just wanted some feedback(constructive) I hope. thanks to all for there thoughts (good or bad)
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I don't think that your pathetic.. I think that you came on here and thought that maybe you could even start talking to people or whatever. I met my ex husband on teh internet.. and you know what now a days.. that's how tons and tons of people are meeting men/woman. Its hard to meet people in teh club or somewhere else.. don't listen to people when they jump all over you. If you get responses from pregneat woman in bad situations then good.. but you should also look into other sites with woman who are not pregneat/... then you guys can get to know each other and go from there. You guys can then either adopt or even get ins____nated, either way you are gonna be there with her while she goes through everything.. good luck :)
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vtach-i think that what you are wanting to do is really sweet. there are alot of sad stories on here. my husband cant have kids so we are using a sperm donor so that may be something that you would want to look into when you meet someone.
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Ok youre right to a degree but what advice can anyone offer? I mean , like i said before let things happen naturally. If its meant to be it will be! And by the way its "pregnancy" and "pregnant"
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Slowpoke, I dont get how a sperm donor is going to help him? Whats he to do with the sperm w/o a woman?
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Oh i see what you meant now...You meant when he finds a woman.
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Emma..you need to read between the lines. I think Slowpoke means when vtach meets that special someone....they can consider a sperm donor........
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oops..guess we were writing at the same time
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Yeah and funny because it wasnt even "bettwen the lines" it was blantantly there! lmao
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oh geez...ok emma....whatevet
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