Making The Announcement To A Booty Call
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ok I figured that this topic would fit here best. Me and this guy have a relationship based solely on s_x. Kinda "Wham Bam Thank You Ma'm" Style. Which works great except now I'm pregnant. How do you tell a booty call you're pregnant? Just saying "Hey buddy, I'm pregnant." seems a bit weird to me.
Oh and before I get bashed we did use condoms but obviously that didn't really work out for us.
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oh yeah and I'm also not expecting him to be around or anything (it would be nice but I'm not going to make him) -- just as a side note
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Hmmm...tough !!! I guess you can tell him just the same way you told us now...I mean, no use sugar coating it right? Call him up and tell him straight up...GL
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Ya thats what I would do too.. just come out and tell him.. Is there any chance that you guys want to be more then just s_x buddies?? Is he a good guy?? Please tell me hes not married or has a g/f though?? loll ol And hey it happens to everyone, all it takes is that 1 to slip by, i hope nobody would bash you. Are you ok with being pregneat?? How old are you?
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Tell him straight up "I don't expect you to be around, unless you want to be, but I'm pregnant." Expect the horrible "are you sure the baby is mine" kind of question and be prepared to handle that calmly, also. Good luck!
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Thanks guys, now I just gotta wait till I see him again. No he's not married nor does he have a girlfriend, at least that is what he told me. He made sure I knew he had no responsibilities as far as kids or a wife or such, which makes me wonder how he would feel about having a kid, but if he doesn't oh well it's not like I'm making him take care of it. And ChattyKathy I think I will use your words.;)
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Keep us posted when you break the news to him.. lol And your right.. you can do this with or without him
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oh I will, it'll have to be next week I want to go to the doctor first to confirm the pregnancy test...just in case and the appointment is on monday, so if its still positive then, I will call him and let him know and then let you guys know...
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Good luck! I hope it goes well.
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